Transitioning

So currently my twins are fed breastmilk only during the day but right before bed they have 3oz to 4oz of breastmilk and like half a scoop of formula to fill them up and sleep longer. Well last night me and the hubby were wondering if I could take melatonin to cut out bottles and formula all together. With my son i coslept and he fed himself after so long. Plus i dont know if i make enough for the twins at night. (Id like to make more) and we also want to cut out binkies. I have quite a bit of a supply but id rather save those until needed. (Im thinking now is needed) i just know I need more sleep and have no idea what to do! Plus hubby is going back to working nights so we will never see him.

Help?!

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bottle

anybody else’s 4 month old hold their bottle?

Baby sleeping

Hi mom's, how do you get your baby to sleep a full 8 or 12 hours every night, I'm suffering my baby girl only sleep for a few minutes every night, I mean she'll fall asleep at say for example 8pm and by 8:15 or before she's up again, I'm struggling really bad and I'm so tired and stressed out I need help

Feeling really disconnected from my husband…

We have a 3 year old son. When our son was a newborn my husband prioritized my MILS feelings (was afraid to be honest with her and hurt her feelings). I was recovering from a C section and she was at our house uninvited when we brought our son home. He knew she was there but didn’t call her and tell her to leave. She knew I didn’t want her there when I brought the baby home.
We invited my MIL to meet the baby in the hospital- she did. The only thing that went wrong was she told us she didn’t like the name we chose for him. Also told me not to feed our baby formula because “it’s poison”. My MIL has always been bossy- controlling, uses a lot of guilt and shame to control things. She’s tried to control how we manage finances, where we live, and now how we raise our son.
Basically since my husband didn’t prioritize my feelings as the new mother - and didn’t put us first- I’ve felt unattracted to him. I view my husband like a he’s man child. He has finally realized how difficult his mother can be. But I just have felt so unsupported by my husband and part of me just wants to get away from him. I want our relationship to work but the connection and attraction seems to have vanished. I have a fantasy of meeting a man that’s mature, emotionally intelligent, that I feel taken care of. Just venting and advice welcomed…

PJ’s

Do you take your kids/toddler (not an infant) out (park, grocery store etc.) in pajamas?

Pillow in cot

My little one is 14 months old and I was wondering at what age are people giving their little ones a pillow ? And any recommendations on the best pillow for toddlers ?

Diastasis recti advice?? Please and thanks 🥹💗

Hi. I have a question! I gave birth November of 2024. My baby was a big baby and before I got pregnant I was relatively thin maybe a tiny little tummy but nothing crazy. It’s been some time and I do go to the doctors earlier this year or late last year (can’t remember honestly) and they told me I had diastasis recti. Since then I’ve tried doing small core workouts here and there (birth was very traumatic so I’m super scared of something happening to my stomach even though mostly everything is healed) and my stomach still bulges a little. Not nearly as bad and I can play with my son and all that still but I want to heal it more and I can’t seem to do enough or something? Any advice is greatly appreciated please!!!