My partner judges me for..

Weird. Just don’t tell him?

A lot of women feel that way about their partner, going by this app, except they say usually are a no no on masturbation entirely.
I guess men feel that way too sometimes.
Can you watch recordings of him instead of porn? If it's important to him then I'd respect it, regarding porn, but he can't say u can't touch your own body.

Reporting it isn't a big deal imo, I tend to tell my man and he tends to tell me, there's no shaming involved. Tho perhaps if it was expected I'd feel differently

Does he masturbate?

I’ll be doing it as soon as he walks out the door. Your a grown ass woman how the hell can he tell you when you should or shouldn’t.

OMG. What happen to ‘by body, my choice?’

I find it weird yes. I share with my partner that I masturbate and he does as well but with no obligation to report on where and when.
We just know it happens and he finds my vibrator in bed every day as I leave it under my pillow.

It’s healthy to have time for yourself and work on self pleasure.

How dare he your body your choice! I bet he does!

That's quite toxic of him to be honest. You should be able to masturbate without having to tell him if you don't want to. I thought it would have been pretty obvious why you were doing it anyway, it's not rocket science? Does he watch pornor look at photos of other women when masturbating? If so i'd be telling him if you can't watch it then he can't watch it either. Definitely not a porn/sex addiction that is very exaggerated statement to make

He 100% masturbates, almost all guys do. Women need to understand that it's normal, and shouldn't be policed. OP I hope you tell him off for that 💛

Lol not up to him
Do what you like

Is this a guy?

"hello just to let you know I masturbated at 10am this morning because I experienced spontaneous arousal, and here is the link for what I watched, and here's a demonstration of how I did it"

He needs to get his insecurities under control because that is ridiculous
I'm imagining a form you have to fill in that links to a spreadsheet 😂

Time:
Reason:
Method:
Pornography used? (Y/N):

What's the hypothesis he's hoping to test by collecting this data? 🤓🤦‍♀️

Unpopular opinion but my husband and I have an agreement that neither of us masturbate nor watch porn, I think it’s part of a healthy relationship to avoid that 🤷🏻‍♀️

It's great that that's what works for you and your partner. However, I wouldn't say avoiding it makes your relationship any healthier. I'm currently 4 months pp and don't always feel like being intimate with my partner due to insecurities but mainly discomfort and not feeling ready to, i'd feel awful expecting him to not masturbate whilst i'm in this phase of life. I think masturbation is really important during the postpartum period as your body has changed so much and it gives you a chance to get to know your new body and your new boundaries before being fully intimate with your partner again. Saying that not masturbating is part of a healthy relationship is suggesting that masturbation is unhealthy which is completely untrue, it's very healthy and very normal

Tell him you are entitled to enjoy yourself and why not!

Do what you like, I’ve always been of the opinion that masturbation is important and a vital part of knowing yourself and your body to better achieve pleasure, by yourself and with your partner, for both women and men.

As a side note, though, I find it quite funny that there’s some overlap on the people who consider masturbation cheating when men do it and the people saying don’t tell him/it’s fine/your body your choice. Which it absolutely is! Just find it very hypocritical

Apart from being healthy for woman’s pleasure, it’s actually very healthy for men to have release often. So unless you shag lots he will probably need to let out at some point for the sake of their health.

Personally I can understand if he feels your not engaged in anything with him and he wants to feel close to you with more intimacy

But if that’s not the case then it’s toxic x

I think it’s only seen as a problem if you’re choosing to masturbate than have sex with him.

If you have a healthy sex life, and masturbate also I don’t see the problem.

I would be mortified if my partner would prefer to watch porn and masturbate than have sex with me. But I agree with him watching porn and masturbating because I do too, but as well as having sex with each other not instead of.

You can masturbate whenever you want and however you want. It’s your body. You go girl.

same ♥️