Single mums how to you cope with being horny?

I mean every noe and then I just feel like hooking up with someone for sex..Sometimes I feel like j think like a men...I m not bothered about being in relationship but I feel like having someone there's when I feel horny.

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It’s hard cos the thought of that makes me feel gross now I have a daughter

At Molly I know what you mean but they way I think about is that's how we were made this desires come from somewhere it's part of who we are..I doubt I will ever find someone who i can rely on so what are other options?

It’s a really important thing to talk about and to acknowledge. I’ve struggled a lot, and now with all the pregnancy hormones running crazy… I have no solution. But getting a hook up is not really what I want… You are not alone! Xx

I’m not a single mom but I am 100% for self service. If you are just horny and not looking for an intimate connection then self service is the way to go. It boosts the happy hormone, relaxes you and is a great option to destress at the end of the day (or at the beginning of the day!) Do you (literally) and enjoy it 😊

I would just start dating soo I can have semi regular sex with someone I feel comfortable with. Many men know single mothers have these needs and are here to supply and deliver on demand :-)

AT Jane yeah i was thinking that but mu concern what if I fall for this person..I m not sure if I can do just "sex"...I have never dkne if before so not sure...

I would suggest sex toys & sex ed class. I went to a sex ed class last weekend it was supper informative!

At Lee what is it??

Im a single so A I struggle to find a babysitter

B I don't know....just can't be fkd lol

Gotta wax🤣
Buy stuff
Fk that 🤣🤣🤣
I got a kid to support
I dont have money to waste anymore
BUT lol
I have a few toys
Alot cheaper
And less BLOODY TROUBLE 🤣
One day maybe never say never

At Diana I know what you mean...only ever now and then I feel like it but yeah I get where you coming from

By what is it do you mean where or how do you find one or what do they discuss .

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Family culture difference on money

Sorry this is long, I hope some of you get to the end and give advice!!!

So I’m a very thrifty person, things are tight at the moment, the cost of living crisis and my house is heated by oil so things are extortionate. We aren’t on the bread line but we aren’t flush, hubby might be made redundant so there is some financial pressure.

Sometimes I buy my sons something nicer, on the justification that I can sell it on after (♥️ vinted ♥️). I have also been planning on pretty much breaking even most of the baby things I bought from face book market place, side by crib, baby changing unit, etc.

Hubby and I have different money cultures with our families (he’s Indian, I’m British). I’m my family we don’t mix money, we would help each other out if someone was in trouble and will get each other gifts on special occasions. With hubby’s family money is much more fluid, they will give each other things worth thousands of £ just because.

Hubby’s brother bought him a new laptop and a new Google phone, he’s been very generous to hubby. Hubby hasn’t given the same back because brother is much richer.

Hubby and I mostly share finances. If it’s relevant I’m the higher earner.

Now to the point! My babies are so cute they’ve given hubby’s brother (currently single) baby rabies. He’s asked for our baby stuff when we’re done with it. He’s been so generous to hubby I feel really stingy saying no. But I’d never have bought some of the stuff if I wasn’t going to get a return on it - the thought makes me a bit anxious. If we gave all our baby stuff given the second hand value it still wouldn’t equal what the brother had given hubby.

I thought maybe I could give him some stuff but sell some stuff, but hubby said then his brother will just have to go out and buy that stuff, so I should name my price and ask his brother for the money. That makes me feel very uncomfortable, given how generous the brother has been to hubby.

So what do I do ladies? Give it all and suck it up? Give part of it and sell parts on Vinted/FB, or ask hubbys brother for money for it and be uncomfortable? Or do you see another solution?

No one is being entitled or rude here, just a culture difference I need to navigate.

Advice

Hi everyone! I honestly have 0 social queues when it comes to talking to anyone in general. I definitely have a hard time talking to other women and making new friends. I can 100% relate. I just don’t like the idea of texting or meeting up but when I do I’m like “oh this isn’t bad.” Any advice? I also have a hard time getting comfortable and just feeling judged by other women😅 I’m also 19 so maybe making a change in this now will help in the future making mom friends/friends in general. Thanks in advance!

Looking for more same age friends!!

Hi! I’m 23 and a stay at home (soon to be) mom. I have been having a tough time finding friends/women in similar circumstances to mine and would love to make some if possible! If you feel the same, let me know

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