PP sex started off good but now it kinda sucks :(

I’m having some trouble PP with me and my partners sex life. I cant help but feel that after having a baby Ive gotten extremely loose. I’m 5weeks PP and me and my partner have had sex about 4 times in the past week. The first few times although initially pretty uncomfortable and a little painful were amazing , my vagina gripped around him good and i was able to cum and I could tell he enjoyed it as well. But last night derailed all of that for me , I felt extremely loose even though my bf tells me that I’m still tight/gripping around him. It was much easier for him to enter vs previously where it wouldn’t go in as easy. I even couldn’t really feel him unless my legs were together. I even queef more than before which I read is a sign of looseness. he tells me Im still tight every time i ask but I feel as though he’s just trying to spare me the details since I’ve been so worried about this since I gave birth. Any Pelvic Floor advice or ladies who have been through anything similar to what I an experiencing?

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Just keep doing your pelvic floor exercises ❤️ several times daily. Mother of 8 😉

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I'm having the same issue. Except I'm like 7 weeks pp

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Queefing depends on the position. It’s been a long time since I did but doggy even without any pen can create an air pocket inside you and make you queef. If he’s putting it in with air. Air will be trapped regardless of your size. This used to happen when I was too tight for a good time.

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