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How do I deal with this?

We are on a new build estate been here a year and we are at the end of our strip of houses we say hello to be polite but that’s it there has been a lot of trouble down one end of the street neighbours arguing we have never got involved.
About 8 weeks ago a women and her daughter came over to me and my children at the park its a friendly village we talk to everyone we realised our youngest will be in the same year and swapped number for play dates. Then I realised she was one of the trouble neighbours I was a bit weary. After one play date which was okay she seemed rather full on she would call me every single day 2 or 3 x a day complaining about her neighbours I said I’m not getting involved politely. But didn’t stop the constant messaging and if she was walking past house she would knock and then she found out I was pregnant after she heard me on a private phone call in my back garden. She mocked me and my husband because he had a vasectomy that failed proved by hospital she makes inappropriate jokes constantly about him and then her daughter went into hospital after a collision at a park she knew my husbands sister worked on children’s ward she told his sister we are best friends and we cook together and have sleep overs I had only met her twice at that point!
She also gets her daughter to call my husband dad even after we have said please stop. Then one night about 10/11pm she was calling outside our window with her 3 children slightly drunk talking about how she she was being chatted up by a man at the local village even threw rubbish in our window told us she wanted to sleep with one man. We told her to go to bed. Then next day she collapsed at our local shops called us to get her children! Then a few days later we had been swimming I was asleep on sofa legs on my husband 2 of our other children asleep on other scares my husband opens the window tells he has to go move her paddling pool as it’s too big she can’t. My husband said no he’s not he is with his family. I try not answer he calls or messages. Then my family come to stay for a week I saw her and said I will be very busy around day she knew they was going home she called constantly I said no I’m with my family please respect that then I got a reply oh I thought the pregnancy had gone bad as you wasn’t replying. She has made so many inappropriate comments I can’t handle it ignoring her doesn’t work even saying that enough doesn’t work what would you do?