Im about to loose my effing mind!!

Go outside, feel the air, take 10 deep breaths, look at the trees. Go back inside, take one more deep breath, put them in their beds and read a story, even if they cry, keep reading calmly, eventually they will calm themselves down because they won’t get the reaction they want from you, one they are asleep, get your husband to go buy you a pint of ice cream, sit on the sofa, and eat the entire thing!

I know it’s hard, and so draining, but you’re doing an amazing job! I don’t have twins so I don’t know what it’s like, but I can imagine that it’s insanely difficult, but I find a good routine works for my kiddies, no tv after 6, we go for a walk after dinner, as soon as we get in, I run the bath, put both of mine in the bath, I put them on my bed, get them both ready in their PJs, go on the sofa, read a book and they will have their bottles, I then put them to bed with a kiss and cuddle. I do the same thing every night and it works for me.

Don’t get me wrong, we have fights about getting PJs on and what cup to put the milk in before bed, but I find the more worked up I get the worse my toddler’s behaviour is.

I hope this helps, sorry if it doesn’t. I hope you get it sorted soon x