I have been noticing that so many women on here don’t have friends.

I have friends but I feel I have lost myself since having a kid.

Before I got pregnant I had an active social life. I’d go out with friends, we would even have our weekly meetup at the local coffee shop. We would go out to clubs, restaurants, bars, have home parties, go shopping together.

Since starting a family things shifted. I became more anxious to go out and my friends stoped inviting me out as much.

Honestly, I think it’s because I got married and moved away from all of my support network. I have friends, but they’re not the same as when I could just say “hey, let’s do this”. Plus, I’m over 2h away from all of them.

I didn’t really have a super active social life to begin with, before having children. I would go out 1-2x a week.

And now? I just have no interest in going out. No interest in meeting new people.