Help Please *Long post

Away with my fella for the weekend and the baby, we are here to reconnect as going through a rough time, *him cheating repeatedly when I was pregnant ๐Ÿ™„ he's always tell me he loves me and he's booked this weekend away for us 3, but I don't feel anything! Not excited or care that we are here! Cba making an effort or anything, I seen him look at other women since we got here and down someone's top who was showing all... he proposed this week too, I wear the ring around him but take it off when he's working as I feel like this "realtionship" isn't even real. Nothing feels right anymore n it feels like he is lying ๐Ÿ˜žhe's only moved back in with me as he had nowhere to go 5 months ago. Don't know what to do or say. I promised I'd give it another go but I literally am dead inside with all the hurt and upset also I couldn't connect with baby while I was pregnant I hated the. Fact I was having his baby even tho baby was planned. Now he's here I absolutely adore him n wouldn't want to be without him. But still feel nothing inside at all.. don't know if I'm depressed or I'm done with the relationship!

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Sounds like you are done with the relationship which in all honesty you should be.

You and your baby deserve better.

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@Bee I think you're right, I literally have no family or friends I can turn to, to get it all out, n understand it! Think when we go home I will speak to him. ๐Ÿ˜ž think he will be more bothered about the fact he has to find somewhere else to live! Thank you for commenting x

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My inbox is open if you need to vent or talk through it. I had to leave a relationship similar to this (he cheated and I TRIED to work it out but ultimately could not get past it)

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There is soo much more cra p to mine too, I just think I had him back as I was late on pregnant and thought I wanted him and could do it. But I look at him n I don't even know him anymore, don't think I really did sadly! And thank you

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As others have said your done with the Rship
Its very obvious in your post
You said " dead inside "
And that is directed at him
Your numb and yea probbly despressed to

As for not connecting with the baby its not so much him
But you ( hope this doesnt come out wrong)
When i got preganant i felt nothing i didnt conncet with the baby while inside my belly
Apart from the fact i was forever vomiting
And scared shitless id have a seizure( I have epilepsy)
Some ppl connect instantly while pregnant i was not one of them
Then i had PPD
But i connected with him and we have a very strong bond

As for your husban
Personally i think you shld move on he cheats ,im a bit lost with what you mean about your wedding band but that does NOT SOUND GOOD,fair or respectful ,you deserve way better then what your settling for
** do not stay ** for the sake of your child**
I come from a home wer e my parents shld of divorced
We are so screwed up
Its not funny( note sarcasm)
I did not want to repeat the past
So i am a

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