Screaming while wiping

My baby girl is potty trained and since then she screams bloody murder when being wiped. Anybody else’s kid doing this? NO, SHE HASNT BEEN TOUCHED! I’m the only one to wipe her and she’s with me 24/7! She screams the same way when I brush her teeth not because she doesn’t like her teeth brushed, she just wants to do it herself. I was wondering if it’s the same with me wiping her now. She probably wants to do it herself. She’s a very independent 23 month old! (obviously still needs help)

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I tell my daughter mommy wipes her first (with a wipe) then I hand her two squares of toilet paper to let her wipe after me. My daughter is the same way very independent 😅

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Yeah, it might just be wanting more independence. I usually let my son “wipe” and then he checks it out and then I wipe him well. Then if he’s gotten poo or pee on his hands from having wiped he needs to wash his hands, which he’s just started getting into doing “all himself” 😆 some kids are fiercely independent and they really don’t want help even though they need it. Can’t let them getting a sore bottom from not having wiped properly, right?

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