Feeling alone?

Anyone else going through their pregnancy single? Me and the dad aren’t together as he is very narcissistic and found out throughout our relationship when we’ve not been on good terms his stayed with other women.. I saw him for the first time yesterday in awhile and was just so upset like I never wanted it to be like this and giving him his stuff just really upset I didn’t think it would but I guess I still have love for him and me doing everything alone is horrible but I also can’t be with someone that has a lot of issues they need to sort out to be a better man, ie his drinking alot, not having a job, needs countselling ect, I just feel really alone the last few days and like I wish he was here even know his been so horrible sometimes during our relationship and my pregnancy meh.. I suppose hormones are all over the place but if anyone else is going through similar please message me would be nice to speak to other women going thought similar 😔💔

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Doing this alone aswell. It gets lonely. But I’d rather be strong through the hard times to be ready to meet the right person later than be filling my time with someone wrong for me and my future out of loneliness. That’s how I look at it.

Weekends are harder I’ll admit. Especially this weekend and last few days as I’ve had some tough things going on personally. But there’s a reason I chose not to have someone in my life and I know I have to be strong in my choice otherwise history just repeats itself.

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Also doing this alone so completely understand, here if you sent a chat 🥰

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Im alone too. I understand, it’s not easy to just stop loving someone. My then boyfriend didn’t want to know as soon as I said I couldn’t have an abortion. You will meet the right person one day ♥️

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i’m alone tooo
don’t even know what i’m doing
don’t mind having a conversation

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