First day at nursery

Little man started nursery this morning in his forest school 🥹🥲💙
It's going to be a tough transition period , hope im doing the right thing :(

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Aww looks like such fun. Wish we had one here. My daughter was due to start today but still has a tummy bug x

Omg forest school! He's going to have such an amazing time ❤️

Teas and coffees won't always be there , was for the parents and all he wanted to play with especially the spoons 🙈 he had a meltdown when I said he couldn't have all the spoons as for other people 🙈 xx

I hope so as honestly not sure if I'm doing right thing. Xx

bless her 😢 hope she gets well soon xx

every kid is so different but mine lives for his nursery afternoons. You love him so I can't imagine you aren't doing the right thing. So much fun stuff to explore. Good luck to you both x

thank you lovely xx

Go Oliver go 🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️ xx

thank you were on day 5 and 80+ nappies in x

ah no way. Poor soul :( xx

thanks lovely 🥰😘

Hope he had a great time! Maxi is sooooo tired after his first morning of preschool

I'm sure he'll love it, making new friends and all new experiences. My LG loves nursery x

Thanks ladies. Bit overwhelming for him at moment. Was only two hrs too with me there. Xx

He will absolutely love it! He will just need time to settle xxx

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