Husband and I decided to separate 3 days ago. I've been sleeping on the floor in the kids room, and we both have to stay in the same apartment for a while. He wont stop pushing little things and I am reaching my limit. Photos in comments
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Why can’t he move out?

Unfortunately its a difficult one when the relationship ends but you have nowhere to go, I was in this situation too. We rented a 2 bed and as we were both on the tenancy there was nothing I could do. I had to sleep on the sofa which meant he had to come through the room for the toilet or kitchen and he took every chance to say horrible things to me, only time he was ever nice was when he thought he could get somewhere with me but would then turn nasty again. I was the one that set out to find him housing from a charity sort of housing place but the names escaped me, its been 10 years and ive tried to forget it all as it got me to the lowest point I have ever been in my life. I ended up moving back to my mums in the end as I couldn't even bear to be anywhere near him, the last straw when when I had our son crying next to me saying no daddy please be nice, walk all over me but when it effects the kid no. Haven't heard a word from him since, no attempt at contact. Anyway rambling over 😅

I wish i could give you some fantastical words of wisdom to help but all I can say is I get the situation, its not easy but it will pass and you can move on and true happiness will hopefully find its way to you like it has me 😊
I just feel so fucking agitated at the moment. I have 2 under 2 and one of them is autistic. So we have daily meltdowns etc. I'm up at 6am every day and don't sit down till maybe 10pm. I'm doing absolutely everything for them & the only break I get is going to the gym but I'm out for an hour max. As soon as I'm home I'm straight back at it, I don't even have time to shower.
My partners great but I don't think he has any fucking idea just how hard it is being with 2 small kids every minute of the day, managing appointments & the house. I'm starting to resent him. I'm snappy & miserable.
I resent my dog. He stinks & keeps malting everywhere. He's old so keeps shitting in the house.
The kids have kicked off for me all morning, yet as soon as he's here its calm & I look dramatic.
I'm not enjoying being a mum cos I can't cope with the constant stress. I've got adhd and autism so I'm overstimulated very quickly.
I've had ENOUGH.
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My husband has an issue with me wearing sexy undies to work. Yesterday, I wore a thong for the first time in years because I'm just tired of my panty line showing 🙃 and oh my gosh he was very unhappy. He says that if he's not happy about it then I wouldn't do it. I should wear it at home. He says things like " men can tell I'm wearing a thong. " I don't respect him because I wear it to work, and he does not like etc. I just can't believe that it bothers him so much. I told him if I feel the need to wear it outside the house I will. It's not every time I want my panty line showing. I literally have less than 4 thongs, and only one Yesterday in years. No one sees under my clothes, so what's the issue. Please give me some advice on this? Who's wrong in this situation?
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What snack ideas would you have for a 19 month old that will keep her entertained on a 9 hour flight and will fit in these little compartments? Will take more of course.

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My toddler is strong willed. He knows what he wants and how he wants it.
Not all communication styles work with a strong willed child.
Any who, about 60 percent of the time when I pick him up from nursery they complain about his behaviour and him not listening. He is fricken 2 and half years old!
Before nursery he never had behavioural issues.
Any who I worry now they are putting this constant though in his mind that he is a bad kid.
He would say things like I'm not going to be a godo boy. Etc.
I got into an argument with my partner about reducing the days. Or even changing the nursery in general.
Am I over reacting?
What would you recommend?
I just remember being younger at schools and teachers constantly shouting or telling off the same kid. Putting this perception in there head that they are naughty, less than. I worry that this can be causing damage. Am I over reacting?
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Almost 4 months pp with 2 under 2...i wanna jump his bones, lick his neck, rub his back to his crack (with shea butter), suck him to sleep, make him moan when i see him doing anything like cleaning, buys my pads, changing diapers, talking with me, sleeping, walking around... Existing.
Ugh been together for 8 years & married for 4. Hes a rock, my blessing & the love of my life...
Anyone else feel like that about their person?
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Looking for some way to get the chaos under control here 🥲
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