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My Mother In Law Said What?!

My mil is a raging c**t

****TW BABY LOSS***
**swearing***

Hi all. my mil is so beyond vile. i need to rant ...
during my first pregnancy she divulged the sex of our son on Facebook. then asked if i was angry and didn't like my response. After the birth, baby started having complications and was transferred to SCBU. When we informed family he was being moved hospital all mil could put was "oh god no please no". We told her to fuck off with the drama, support us or fucking stay away. In the aftermath of our sons death, she convinced her entire family to come to her house (not the grieving parents house) she got her youngerst son to bring her grandkids over from abroad (my kid is dead she needs to see living grandkids)... He told us it wasn't a holiday and hes here for us. Every time we called him he was out doing tourist stuff with the kids!
Mil pushed a note through our door "don't push me out you're the only ones who know how i feel" ... just to clarify it was MY SON that passed. She discussed our finances/texts with anyone who would listen, she even had a family chat that didn't include us. She always said "do you remember you said this or that" I had to tell her I was grieving not retarded. My hubby stopped talking to her after she manipulated us into changing the date of his funeral then fucked off on holiday. Yep, while we were a month into grieving our beautiful little boy.
We decided no one was coming to his funeral, both families had somehow made a really shitty situation a thousand times worse and there was no way they were doing it at his funeral, he had a dignified goodbye with the people who mattered, Mummy and daddy.... On the morning of the funeral we both got ridiculous crying woe is me voicemails from that cunt she didn't think about our feelings that day, how we are about to cremate our boy. That was the final straw for me.
fast forward a few months back my hubby was in hospital. he hadn't spoken to this bitch for nearly 4 years. he called her asking her to come over while we went to hospital to look after our daughter. We were desperate and had no one else. she said she "wasn't allowed" but would "come tomorrow" ....she knew my hubby was going into hospital.. I said if i was her I'd be there after nearly 4 years no contact. that she was "fucking disgusting and to stay away". the abuse my hubby got while in hospital was outrageous.
Ever since our son died, that family have told me im controlling my hubby (haha) and owe them all an apology (haha). its easier to blame a grieving mother than look at your own behaviour and I'm not ok with that.
i now understand how he has been affected by these people and why his mental health is so bad. I've witnessed a snippet first hand. my mil flat out accused me of control while hubby was ill in hospital and i told her exactly what I thought. years of resentment and anger towards that cunt finally exploded. its still all my fault despite hunby telling her otherwise.
This is bare bones story theres so much more these people have done to us. we are obviously no contact at this point.
Never ever accept shitty behaviour from these pieces of shit. Stand your ground enforce the consequences of their actions or cut them the fuck off! You are more important than their drama and nastiness
NOTE: I wouldn't piss on them if they were on fire
xxx