Sex Drive

So I’m now 27 weeks and still have 0 sex drive like nothing, I’ve had no want to have sex or be intimate the whole way through my pregnancy so far, does anyone else feel this way? I feel bad on my partner, I’m sure he understands but I can’t help but feel a little guilty…

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yess!

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Same, I thought it would come back in the second trimester like in the movies but it's all lies, I feel bad for my husband! I'm just not interested I'd rather cuddle, I kinda miss feeling horny lol

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I’m the opposite 🥴 buttttt my body can’t keep up

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Hey I’m exactly the same, me and my partner have tried different positions but my it is sore and it doesn’t help that my back really hurts aswell, I can’t just get in position and I can’t find any enjoyment in it. This is completely normal during pregnancy because of the hormones and back pain is from the baby pressing on your spine. Me and my partner just maintain intimacy in other forms , missing cuddles etc. sorry to hear this xx🥰

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I’m only 24weeks n 4days I have no interest n I feel bad for my partner but he understands

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Same ! I don't want to be touched from first days of pregnancy tbf. Feels awful

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same like even if he try’s to make me in the mood I’m in the mood for a second then bam straight out of it when I’m touched..

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I can't even be put into mood... makes me stressed and angry when he tries

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I barely can if I am as soon as he touches me I’m not in it anymore..

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