Loneliness

Does anyone else just feel lonely, I have people I know with kids but no one ever wants to meet up with me.
I'm so lonely I don't have interaction all day with anyone other than my 14 month old son until my partner comes home. I feel like I'm letting son down. I've tried making friends and it never goes anywhere to the point where I get ignored. I've tried groups but I always get put the corner of the room because it's either clicky or no one wants to talk. Is it just me or anyone else experience this?

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I went to a church event. Somewhere that people are supposed to be friendly and go out of their way to welcome new people. No one talked to me. I went home and cried. I've gone several days in a row where I've only talked to my husband and son. I've had days where I've cried because I feel so isolated and lonely.

The only suggestions I can offer is persistence and hobbies. I took up crochet and it's given me something to talk about when I'm meeting new people. I've also developed a couple opening lines and I have three or four topics of conversation. If I can't connect with someone by the end of that, I give up on them.

I'm also working on building up the confidence and courage to approach people on my own. I'm not great at it though.

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Oh my lovely exactly how I feel :(
And I've been there with the groups and it's just put me off completely.

I already do cross stitch That's if I have time to do it :( which is rare these days.
Thats a good idea :)
Thank you for commenting and making me not feel so alone xx

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