Awful Daytime Sleep

Is anyone else experiencing awful naps during the day?? My daughter is 7 weeks and it takes me forever to get the girl to sleep and sometimes it will be the 2-3 hour nap I’m used too but this last week it has been 20-40 minutes. I have read this is normal for the age of our July babies, but the amount of time it takes to put her to sleep is absolutely insane and exhausting 😅

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Yesss! My daughter is 7 weeks tomorrow and she does the same thing!

Yep my son does this. I will go to nap when he naps and it exhausts me even more cause I get like 20 mins and he wakes.

I normally get 10-15 minutes then my daughter wakes up

Yep, same thing happening to me with my 7 weeker!

Thank you all so much, I already feel less alone! I thought I was missing something 😔

My lil guy is almost 10 weeks and has been doing this for a few weeks now. Will only nap in the car or contact nap. Even then it's rare to get a full big nap in.

it’s so hard, mine won’t even really contact nap anymore
:( only nursing will put her to sleep which barely works anymore 😅

Mine will not sleep hardly at all during the day. She will only sleep if we go out and she is in the car seat/stroller and as soon as we are back home she is usually awake for hours. Only tiny little 10 minute naps over the span of 5 or 6 hours at a time. She sleeps great at night though! For now anyway haha

Yes!! My daughter is 8 weeks and will fall asleep while nursing but the literal second I put her down will jolt awake 🙃 I don’t want her to get into the habit of contact naps so it’s been a struggle. Especially cause I’m sick right now so I’m extra exhausted and can’t even nap

sorry to hear you’re sick, that makes everything so much harder :( if it helps, every bad habit I thought she would get it only lasts a couple weeks and then it’s something new lol. I feed her on my side in bed and that’s the only way I get her and keep her asleep but even that hasn’t been working during the day 🤦🏼‍♀️

at least we have the night sleep to be grateful for, but the days are so hard. It’s not like she’s happy being awake all day either 🤦🏼‍♀️

my babe is doing this to! She falls asleep while nursing, then up when I put her down. She has fits too if anyone else holds her 🫣

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circumcision

are we circumcising our boys? or leaving that to dad?

Should I be concerned or am I overthinking?

My little boy is 15 months old, he’s recently taken his first steps and he says mamma and dadda and baba (he has said these for months) we’ve filled out the paperwork for his 12-14 month review and it looks like he isn’t meeting many of his milestones.

He doesn’t copy actions, point, clap etc. He doesn’t react when being spoken to, or to his name. He actively avoids eye contact.

He was so unresponsive to sound that we just had his hearing tested concerned he was deaf. They found that he could hear so he is just choosing not to react to any noises or sounds.

Has anyone else had similar experiences with their little ones? Should I be raising this with the health visitor and ask to be assessed for neurodivergent issue or a social communication problem like autism?

I don’t want to just slap a label on him, but I do feel that there are real concerns. All opinions welcome!!

Routines?

When did you start to introduce your baby’s routine? Do they just have a night routine or full day routine? Wondering when I should start this e.g naps at the same time everyday.

Any routines you have that work for you, please let me know them with timestamps. my baby is 6 weeks and just wondering when we should start them?

Does anyone else’s baby spit up breastmilk but not formula?

I’m seriously considering seeing a lactation consultant because I don’t understand why he can’t hold down breastmilk but can formula. I use soy formula since I’ve used it with my daughter and I’m thinking it might be due to not getting milk coming in for a few days so I had no choice but to give him formula, but now even if I take breaks in between feeding him breastmilk to burp or try to mix breastmilk and formula, he spits it up sooo much. I’m ready to just give him just formula because I’m worried about him not eating enough

Reflux

I need some help my baby is 6 weeks old and recently when I try and wind him after his bottle he’s not bring any wind up and just keeps being sick, I’ve tried infacol but that doesn’t seem to be doing much.

I think Motherhood has made me more bitter than I realized…

This is such a ramble but I don’t know where else to put it all.

I’m four months in and I don’t really have hobbies right now. I don’t do anything for myself except maybe doomscrolling or listening to a podcast while I breastfeed my baby. I used to craft and have game nights with friends. Activities that usually are at least 2 hour stretches. Now if I have an hour free my mind immediately goes to baby, or doing something in the house for baby.

And I thought I didn’t mind. Like I knew postpartum could be very mentally consuming. But I think it’s altering how I view people around me and it’s prodding at my relationship with my husband.

He spends most of his time making food for us, looking after our dogs, playing with the baby, ect. But he still has time for his hobby. Spends maybe an hour a night on it. Even adapted to using a bot for shopping for his hobby after a certain incident where we had to have a heart to heart after he left me home alone with the baby for hours during a busy workday (I work from home) to shop for his hobby.

And yet there’s like this little green eyed monster in me that rages every time I know he’s running off to start up the bot. Even though I’m the reason he does it this way.

We took a family trip last weekend to see his best friend and their kids and let them meet the baby. He brought the laptop. He’s always brought a laptop on trips and it’s never been a problem to me before. But one night we both woke up while the baby was still asleep, and he wandered out of the room. I tried to fall back asleep but couldn’t. So I went to the kitchen to try having something warm to drink to settle me. And he was there at the table running the bot from his laptop. I flipped out at him. But there really wasn’t reason to. It’s not like I needed help with the baby and he was ignoring me. He wasn’t avoiding our friends. He was just awake and unable to sleep and found something to do with his time. Yet my snap reaction was “why the hell would you do this on a family trip?”

I don’t know what it is. Maybe it’s the less complete sleep from baby’s middle of the night feed? My brain being just consumed by baby? Maybe I’m not as over that shopping incident as I thought? But I’m just so annoyed at his hobby right now. The green eyed monster thinks “you could be using that time differently” but realistically to do what exactly??? Stare at our baby in the dark???

I spent probably an hour apologizing to him after I snapped. And he’s of course hurt and frustrated because I said some very mean things in the moment.

I don’t want to be this jealous, angry person. But I also don’t know how to find time for myself in this right now outside of basic hygiene. It’s like I’ve forgotten how to be myself, even if just for an hour.

Maybe I need a therapist.