I’m struggling with this pregnancy

It's definitely harder with 2 kids regardless of age but sometimes it's easier in other ways. They constantly have a built in playmate. The older one can help toss a diaper or grab something you dropped. So with any thing there are pluses and minuses you have to try to stay positive and keep some sort of schedule and build a village with other moms

thank you so much you’re right I just think I’m really overthinking things on top of the hormones and just people being people and telling me constantly how hard it will be.

We had 2 under 2. Our oldest turned 2 July 30. Our youngest will be 8mo on the 20th ( they're 10 days shy of being 18mo apart). Some days are a bit much with a toddler, but they love each other so much. I nurse/pump a lot throughout the day, so sometimes that gets annoying or stressful. Diaper changes, feeding, reading, playing, etc. It all developed a schedule naturally I think. I love how close they are in age. There will always be some rough days ( with any # of children). You & your partner will. Figure it out. You can rely on each other & never be afraid to ask for help. Make sure you schedule some time weekly to get out of the house alone. If you plan to pump, havw plenty of pump sets & bottles so you aren't always cleaning parts, but can rest in the beginning.