I need help

I was begging and begging my partner to answer my phone calls he says he will be home in 15 minutes its been 3 hours he wont answer the phone or he just hangs up im 11 weeks pregnant ive been throwing up none stop and hes just not come home im heart broken

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Is he at work or are you arguing? It’s not right he’s not answering you at all especially being pregnant!!

This is disgusting behaviour and you are worth way way more than this! Even if he had a reason to not answering you, it’s still awful and horrible! He should know that will be giving you anxiety, your carrying his child Nina! Completely unacceptable if you ask me! My inbox is always open darling 💜

Girl you know what to do if you’re on here complaining about your significant other… he’s a 🚩

im so scared to be a single parent but this has been coming for some time but i know its the best thing for me because hes watched me be really poorly during this pregnancy and hes not been there for me once not once constantly ignoring my calls not even checking up on me and he doesnt even come home sometimes..
How is the best way to be a single mum like i dont tjhink im strong enough to do it alone 😥

no he had left work told me he was coming home to look after me 3 hours later still not home and hanging up phone no arguements nothing.

its more the fact i feel so alone

I’m so sorry babe you and your baby deserve someone who will be there whenever you need him to be and clearly if he can’t answer the phone he doesn’t deserve you, give me a message anytime❤️

I can understand your fear babe! But you have friends and family for support and if not that you have me for support! Can I ask a question? Do you think he’s cheating? Probably a question that I shouldn’t ask due to the stress your under but it’s give me major red flags vibes! Trust me your stronger than you think darling , us girls are independent women whether we think we are or not it’s plain and simple we are! You can do it I promise you! You might not feel like it at the minute but whilst your baby is cooking safely in there , look at options , help advice especially from your midwife aswell! Xxxxxx

Babes he hates you. There’s no way this is love in any way. I was scared to be a single mum and I stayed but girl I’m so done now I feel free and good

girlie, it sounds like you’ll be no better off even if you stayed with him! do what you think is best for you and baby. sending hugs x

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