I love my partner very much but recently he is starting to piss me off, he hardly helps out with our 2 year old and 1 month old like I have to ask him to do the simplest of things like changing a nappy or getting them ready for bed or bathing them, like I hardly get a break for myself but it’s alright for him to be playing video games at night time and for him to be on his phone. Just wondering if anyone has any advice like I’ve told him loads of times how I feel but nothing seems to change. It’s like I’ve got 3 kids
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Not advise sorry. But I’m in the same boat except my 1st child his 4th so you would think he would know what’s needed of him. And I see a LOT of women saying the same that there partners are lacking!

In the same boat. 😔

Yup, and I’ve told him to get fucked. I’m not his mum and nor am I going to beg for the little things he should be doing

I set expectations before we had kids about what I expected from my partner/father of my kids. We are equal partners in parenthood and I wouldn’t accept anything less. He’s not your helper. He’s the father and you shouldn’t have to ask him to do anything. He should notice what needs to be done and do it on his own.
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