Lunch ideas for childminder

Can anyone recommend some COLD lunch ideas for days at the childminder?

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Sandwiches, wraps, pasta or quiche during the warmer months with a yoghurt and 1 peice of fruit and veg. I also batch cook thinks like pizza pinwheels ect and then freeze them they can be frozen for up to 3 months, then the day before i get 1 out to defrost and then pop it in her lunchbox the next morning x

hey! Very random but would
You mind sending me the link to these lunch boxes? They look great! X

yeah of course. First one is Sistema Salad Max TO GO Lunch Box | 1.63L Food Storage Container with Individual Compartments | Teal https://amzn.eu/d/3Etp8mj
Loads of room and good with the compartments!

Bugucat Lunch Box 1300ML, Adult Kids Leakproof Bento Box with 5 Compartments and Spoon, Food Container Lunch Containers for School Work and Travel, Microwave & Dishwasher Safe for Men Woman, BPA Free https://amzn.eu/d/2zQeJ8i
Link for the second one which is my fave. It's sealed between all the compartments so can empty yoghurts in and they don't spill across. Same with fruits don't send anything soggy because of the seal. Really good lunch box! Xx

Should have said as I didn't realise the group. These packed lunches are my three year olds. I would pack similar for my one year old but change some bits to be suitable for him!

thank you so much! Xx

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