Normal sleep regression?

Hi Mamas! My LO is 4 months and suddenly won’t go down to sleep in his crib at night. He used to go down and stay asleep but now he wakes up and cries frantically. Also during his night time wakings he will take a long time to go back to sleep. I used to be able to get him give him a feed and put him back down within 20 minutes but now it takes an hour!

Is this normal for the sleep regression? Is anyone else facing the same struggles?

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Same thing here! My LO has also started having issues at nap time (20-30 mins nap and she wakes up). From the other posts I've read on this app, it seems we're all in the thick of it right now unfortunately. But.. this too shall pass (eventually)! :)

Yup, I'm in the same boat! Took forever to get my LO to sleep last night and that never happens. She used to go down so easily but last night she wouldn't stop crying. And then after midnight she woke up every hour and it was hard getting her back to sleep..... Her naps also suck now too...
Hopefully this passes quickly!

No idea what's normal but my LO also wouldn't go down to sleep in her bassinet last night. Took us multiple tries and she'd wake up crying every 5-10 minutes. After a few hours of trying and broken sleep, I just let her fall asleep next to me for about an hour before moving her to her bassinet.

It's been a rough few days for us. Her sleep has been all over the place. She's always been a short daytime napper but the nights have changed significantly. She used to sleep 5-6 hour stretches and now we're lucky to get 3. She's typically waking every 1-2 hours which has been exhausting for both of us haha just trying to stick to our routine as best as we can and hoping this passes soon!

Good luck mama!

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