Following porn girls on social media...

Do the same back show him how it feels me as a wife Id do that to my husband if I speak on it and you dismiss me cool two can play that game 💯💯

Have you tried to try new things with him? Or experiment new things with him?

we actually have a very active sex life, not as adventurous as I'm pregnant right now but in general. we stilk have sex like 3xtimes a week still while I'm pregnant so it's not really anything we lack as such

you mean like follow other men online? Haha this thought never actually occurred to me

Sounds like y’all have a routine rather than unexpected random spontaneous sex

Yeah girl post sexy pictures too and like pictures and comment on guys and follow guys too I did this to my husband I ain’t gonna lie he just went ahead and deleted his whole social media. 🤣🤣

we absolutely do have spontaneous and exciting sex admittedly not while I'm pregnant but him followong porno girls isn't a new thing. Also I get the feeling the angle you're aiming is that I am somehow culpable for HIS behaviour?

haha he would actually lose his head if I did that, and I have some real 🔥 pictures (prior to pregnancy) it would be hilarious 😂

Please do not blame yourself. This has got nothing to do with you. If he can't simply delete the people he's following and you have expressed to him how it makes you feel, then I probably advise you to think more about how he reacts when you put the issue to him. As in, does he really care ? Does he even consider changing ? If after all these years he doesn't understand how it hurts you then...As hard as it is, deep deep inside we know what we want. Perhaps if you're close to your family, speak to a family member you trust and see what advice you get from them. I feel like sometimes as women we feel too embarrassed to share with family members or people around us and we tend to carry a lot ourselves as it's not only embarrassing for us, but we also try to protect the man... Not fair. I hope it helps ☺️

thanks for being understanding. yes it's been communicated repeatedly unfortunately. I feel like I want a break from him right now, as it's been 12 years of communicating this and still the same outcome

My boyfriend and I almost broke up over the exact same thing this week. (It got so heated because I’m 33 weeks pregnant) He was single for 5 years before he and I got together, I don’t mind porn or hentai (honestly I prefer the hentai for him and myself) but just last weekend I broke down and spent half the day in bed because I thought something was wrong with me when our sex life suddenly changed so dramatically. After I broke down, he made it clean he only wants me and he thinks I’m soo attractive and everything else. Two days ago, I got on his computer and found hundreds of onlyfans and X/twitter pages. I lost it again. I confronted him that night. Asked him why and if he had paid for anything. I wasn’t looking for porn when I found it, I wasn’t mad at him. Just so devised he could do that, especially right after that conversation. He said he has paid for anything since we’ve been together, I saw his bank app to prove it. He said he never messaged anyone but I didn’t go through his

Accounts. Some guys just have a problem. You can’t fix it for them. They need to want to change. Porn is an addiction. It alters your expectations and lowers your sex drive. If he has a reoccurring problem, he likely needs help.

No sweetie I’m not aiming for that at all. I was in your shoes twice. Not with porno girls but other women at my now ex’s job. I would trying to dress in sexy clothes or even nude and send him pics while he was at work and even while pregnant and I still wasn’t doing enough to satisfy he sexual cravings. But I had to realize that it wasn’t me because I was doing more than I needed to.

If you truly feel you need a break from him take a break there is nothing wrong with that at all. Especially since you’ve communicated more than once that he’s needed to stop and hasn’t changed his actions

He knows it's wrong why tell him. Let him be, focus on what makes you happy. All will work out! Remember your feelings are valid always❤️