MAMIS INFORMADAS VERACRUZ Y DEL PLANETA 😝

¿Sabes porque un recién nacido se ríe al ver a su mamá?

A todos se nos cae la baba cuando nuestro bebé saca sus primeras sonrisas y creemos que se quieren comunicar con nosotros, pero realmente lo que conocemos como SONRISA SOCIAL, no aparece hasta que tiene unas 6 semanas de vida.
¿Y esa sonrisa que sale antes?

¡Se produce por imitación! El bebé detecta que estamos sonriéndole y hace lo mismo.

Y esto lo hace a través de las NEURONAS ESPEJO, un circuito de neuronas que tenemos desde el nacimiento que nos hace entender el mundo a través de nuestras figuras de apego.

Estas neuronas son también responsables del desarrollo de la EMPATÍA y la capacidad de
MENTALIZACIÓN a medida que van creciendo.

Así que estas neuronas también son responsables de que sepan detectar nuestro estado de ánimo y nivel de cansancio y además "contagiarse" de él.

¿No os ha pasado que cuando estáis ya muy cansadas parece que el bebé está más irritable? Sin embargo lo coge una persona serena y es capaz de calmarle.

Estas primeras semanas son un momento maravilloso para conectar nuestras neuronas espejo con nuestros bebés, y la mejor forma de hacerlo es: mirándole a los ojos, hablándole y cantándole, jugando juntos y transmitiéndole mucho amor y calma.

Fuente: nurianunezpsiquiatra

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Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

Question about ejaculation

I tell my partner to wear a condom not only for protection but also so that there's no mess to clean up when I get up to use the toilet. Is this normal?
I ask because I now have the contraceptive pill but I still want him to wear a condom.

Friend 🥺

Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

Friends!?😊

Hii there! Just a mom looking for some friends to talk to through out the days. I’m from Ohio but don’t mind long distance friends. Feel free to message me!

Hey!

Hey mamas! I’m back on here again hoping to find good friendships on here ! I didn’t really have any luck last time . I’m giving this another try again ! I’m 26 with two little girls I have a 4 year old and 8 months old and I am stay at home mom rn . I’m hoping to find friends who understand my situation and be able to talk everyday when they can . And I’ll be getting married in July .

I need an AI app recc to talk to.

I have no family. I have no real friends. Just one that I text. But she’s 8 years younger and isnt a mom. I genuinely don’t talk to anyone other than my partner and our toddlers. I’ve seen some people use AI? Or a chatgbpt? I dont know but if someone could suggest an app that I can just talk to… I would love to have a friend or something instead but this is probably for the best…