SAGGY TIDDYS

Soo , I recently stopped breastfeeding and my breast are so deflated. I’m so insecure. I don’t even take my top off when I have sex with my husband . I feel like it also makes it hard for me to even get in the mood when he plays with them🥹 Has any successfully restored at least some type of firmness ? I seen someone talk about pumpkin seed oil but I REALLY REALLY do not want surgery for implants or have to deal with scarring from a lift. I want to say my breast have shriveled up to a good A or even a B cup.
Any advice would be great thanks . I just want to feel sexy again and feel like I can be fully naked around my husband :(

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If you find any ideas please let me know, I’ve done everything in the book for my Brest to get to where I had them before my first child. I found it impossible

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I’ve done research … it’s because of our cooper ligament being too stretched out.. and poor circulation to the breast causes them to not heal is what I’ve gotten from the research . But I also have a lot of stretch marks so that’s another problem. Even if I were to restore the ligaments there’s so much extra skin because of the stretching 🥲

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Yes!!! I have stretch marks too! Ugh I have read if you massage them EVERY night it would help with the circulation.

But that has to be like true dedication.
I recently read B- flat came out with something for the boobs.

I have the cream for the stomach and it works really well, it tones and firms the skin.

The belly one works really good so I was going to attempt the boob one next. I don’t know if you want to check that out. .

But again, that Hass to be every day and consistent .

And being consistent with your personal self, can be quite difficult when you’re taking care of little humans .

12 years later since my first, I’m still self-conscious about them .

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we sacrificed a little bit of our beauty so our children could have all of theirs 🥲

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It’s important we do not reflect and let our children see it. They can fall to be self conscious 😭

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Beautifully said

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I know !! It’s so hard. I only have girls so I have to be careful what I say at all times 😭

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I have the same problem especially after my second. I am thinking of surgery to just lift them. But I will have to wait till my little one is a bit older

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Me too!!! Ugh and especially doesn’t help
When you have other kids making fun of and teasing them 😭😭

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girl my oldest said my boobs are saggy 🤨😂😂

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I wish I could get a lift .. but scarring and keloids run in my family

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thank you I definitely try. After my first they eventually did get a little firm but not anywhere near before I had a baby. I was like an AA so small almost flat chested and now I’m so sad because they stretched so badly. I learn to love myself everyday

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No way!! Mine too😂🤣. These kids are ruthless now.

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