Second baby?

My baby is 5 months old. But I’m thinking on having a second one. Am I a bad moms for that. My brother and I aren’t far apart and we have a stronger bond than any relationship I’ve ever been in.

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No I want baby #2 already and my daughter just turned 5 months. I’m not sure if it’s because I’m the only child or because I wanna be done by 30 but we haven’t been preventing it from happening it just hasn’t happened 🥲

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My girl is 5 months old and I just found out I’m 5 weeks pregnant. I was on birth control it wasn’t planned. I have a 10 year old boy and 4 year old girl. I’ll be 31 in December.
These two will be the closest in age. I’m shocked, excited and stressed about it lol.

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I get it. My baby just turned 5 months yesterday and I would be 100% down to start trying for a second if I had someone special. Baby daddy for my daughter is a pretty terrible person or I would still be with him.

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I’ve been saying for a while that I would be down for another baby despite my LO only being 23 weeks. He’s my first and I’m 40, so I know my clock is ticking. Definitely doesn’t make you bad mom at all! 🖤

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My babies are 26 months apart but thats because i wanted all the first and not to be in so much pain when having the first year but its up to you i personally enjoy them 2 years apart

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Yeah I’ve been wanting another but my husband isn’t on board just yet 😣

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I completely understand, I’m in a similar position.

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