Signs my partner watches porn?

I think he watches it in “private browser” so no history of it. What are some signs?

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There aren't really any signs. I mean my partner has a problem with it, but I didn't even have to look at his history. I made our bed every morning, but if his side looks slept on, I knew. If he got home from work 2 hours before me but was just getting in the shower, that was a major giveaway. If he didn't want sex, then he already took care of himself with porn.

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My husband has a porn issue as well. Luckily he doesn't know what secret browser is. I was told that there are apps you can install like a parent control but it will alert you when inappropriate sites are looked at. But when my husband watches it he has ZERO sex drive like I can't get him going for the life of me.

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He swears he doesn’t do that but lemme tell y’all how I went in his email to find a message from a realtor and seen he signed up for “banglocals” or some shit he said it’s from years ago before we were together

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You can't find a time stamp for it? I mean, my husband has weird stuff from years ago before we were together, but it all ends up in spam because he doesn't use it anymore.
Men will find a way. I have come to terms that if my husband desperately wants to, he will do it and hide it from me simply because he knows how I feel about it.

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it was actually from the first 3 months of our relationship I did find a date on it…but yeah that’s the same thing I think. I HATE porn imo it’s adultery bc it’s lust over another person. He knows this and I know he can’t watch at home bc we have porn blocker on our router but he drives for a living so I believe he does when he leaves the house

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If he does that when he leaves the house (let's hope not) then he has a major addiction. My husband admitted to an addiction when I left a few years ago after I found out he'd watch it beside me secretly..

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yeah that’s really messed up especially if you’re right there

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If he has iPhone there’s a way to check deleted history (if he has watched it on the off chance not on private browser).. go to his settings > click safari > scroll right down to advanced > at the top it will say website data > and all websites he’s visited using internet even if he’s deleted his history will end up on there, it has a search bar so you can search certain words like “porn” “chat” “hot” “cams” “strip” “xxx” ect and the websites will pop up.. I’ve used this in the past and saw loads of sites that was deleted from there google history - it doesn’t work for private browser but I highly doubt he will know all his deleted searches will be in that settings bit 👌🏻

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thank you so much for this! Definitely going to check tonight when he falls asleep

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If he has an android also, there is a file that most people don't think to delete and that's video history.

Menu-history-video history


People do not realize that any video you watch in browser saves there

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