My husband hates that I don't initiate sex...

We all know it has to do with my "love language" being "acts of service" but if I so much as mention him doing chores he will do one of 2 things... point out how I haven't done anything that day or point out all the times he has done things. The most he does without being asked is wash clothes. He won't put any of it away. I have to ask him to do just about any other chore and if I do ask then he asks me to help him do it.

How am I supposed to want sex when all I feel like is a machine meant to just do chores constantly? When he does ask for sex most of the time I say yes just so he is satisfied for a little longer. Just feels like a never ending loop.

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in our community

shooting my bestie shot again🙂

Hi 👋🏽 My name is caitlyn and i'm 23 with a 1 year old named avery !💙 It seems like nobody really wants to hold a convo or I get ignored 😭 I'm also open to long distance as well ! i'm 420 friendly🍃! if i'm not working or in class im usually at home watching crime docs and sipping on some wine ! once you get to know me im really nice and chill !!

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Mama needs new friends ✨

Hey mamas 🤍 I'm going to be honest — I'm at a season in my life where I'm craving real, genuine friendship. The kind where we actually check on each other. Where conversations go both ways. Where we can laugh, vent, cry, and just *be* without it feeling one-sided.

I'm a stay at home mom of 6 (yes, 6! 👏🏼) and my days are full but my cup feels a little empty in the friendship department. I'm looking for women who get it — the chaos, the beauty, the exhaustion, all of it.

If you're a mom who values deep, reciprocal friendship and you're also out here looking for your people — drop a 👋 below. Let's actually get to know each other. 🤍

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Help

Really embarrassing!
I'm a first time mummy at 35, she's 16 month and everytime I sneeze or cough I lose control of my bladder and pee a little 😔, I've had countless utis since having her aswell! Will it get better? Or do I need to invest in panty liners? 😆

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Leaving your baby

Has anyone else not left their baby to be looked after by someone else (not dad) yet? I still don't feel ready but am being told I should be by now

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Sometimes I post on here just to hear other women call me pretty🥴🙈

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Random but when you use a vibrator do you need to hold your lips open for it to touch the bean ?

It gets annoying because even if I open my legs I still need to hold the lips open to touch the bean and I have to do it the entire time my lips are literally sealed closed 🤣

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