Sertraline - do I need it?

Mums, looking for some advice on taking this drug. At my 8 week check up, my Dr suggested that my mood was very low and I seemed down and unable to enjoy my baby girl.
I wasn’t really aware that I was that down, but to be truthful, I am in tears most days about being a bad mum, not being able to breastfeed and just being very tired and lacking enthusiasm and any joy in life. To be clear, I’m not feeling suicidal I’m just feeling very down.

I’m quite scared of taking the drug, I don’t want it to affect me and make me worse.

Can anyone offer any advice on the best way to handle this?

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Depression isn't just suicidal ideation. I've struggled with depression since 12 and only been suicidal twice. What makes you scared to take it?

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Hi Heather, I’m just scared of the side affects, becoming dependent on it. Not sure, this is totally new to me as have never been depressed as far as I know.
I’m open to it, just a bit scared.

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I’ve been on it for over 15 years. I decided to come off when trying for a baby and it’s the WORST. The brain zaps, dizziness, sweating. My honest advise would be to try and avoid if you can. If you do- it takes a few weeks to take effect, you may feel better but it’s not a long term fix.

Maybe speak to friends/ family, do more things you enjoy, get help with baby, take some time for you.

Also- I never breastfeed as I simply didn’t want to, my 5 month old is thriving. It feels like your putting a load of pressure on yourself.

My DM always open x

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It does help and is one of the safest SSRIs. It’s the top one recommended for pregnancy and pp. If you follow doctor’s instructions for dosing (going on and off) you shouldn’t have any negative side effects. The most I ever had was an upset stomach that lasted a day or two.

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I’ll follow on from this passive aggressive comment.

I DID follow dr instructions to come off and did it over a year. Awful drug- MY OPINION :)

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just sharing my experience ☺️

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It's such early days and its hard but why some medics feel the need to pathologise normal feelings is beyond me. Id try without it for longer if you can. For me sertraline was awful. I could only sleep 20 mins a night, my genitals went completely numb, I felt constantly like I could throw up and I felt emotionally numb. It didn't help at all with my mental health issues I just got awful side effects

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@Anne I followed instructions going on it and my side effects were absolutely unbearable to the point I was told to stop. Following instructions doesn't help prevent side effects when starting

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I personally think you need more support with breastfeeding and being a new mum, not medication thrown at you. After birth is the biggest hormone drop anyone ever experiences, that alone is tough but doesn't mean you need medication. Perhaps a lactation consultant, some proper support and guidance and encouragement is what they should be advising

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Thanks everyone, seems like so many contrasting experiences from it.
I think that’s why I’m reluctant to start, however I think will try with low dose and see how it goes with an open but cautious mind.

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@Jessica I hope it helps and you don't get the nasty side effects. However I feel obliged to say one more thing- the sexual side effects can become permanent in some people. It states it on thr info leaflet but many aren't aware so I just wanted to make sure you know to make a fully informed decision as I've seen people advocate for this to be known within my support group for mental health

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“I am in tears most days about being a bad mum, not being able to breastfeed and just being very tired and lacking enthusiasm and any joy in life.”

Girl, that’s, like, the dictionary definition of depressed.

It’s okay to have hard days, but you’re not meant to feel this way all the time. It’s really important to nip depression in the bud because, from experience, things can go downhill fast without you even realising.

I’ve never had Sertraline but I know some people swear by it. I’m currently taking a low dose of Citalopram and I’ve found it helpful in regulating my moods (which, mid-pando, were pretty much in the toilet).

Sometimes anti-depressants can take a little trial and error to find the right one and the right dosage, so don’t expect an overnight miracle. And all these things are generally more helpful when coupled with some CBT or counselling.

I hope you feel better soon. Remember that things do get better and that there’s no shame in asking for help. ❤️

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Also just another suggestion. Cyclogest can be used to manage post natal depression. It's massive hormone swing and this can help balance it out for a while to help you adjust. It's not an antidepressant It's progesterone. I noticed this listed as a use when I took it during pregnancy

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Thank you babe 🫶

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interesting…. It’s the pessary right?
I think I have a tonne from IVF treatment. Will read further 👍

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@Jessica yup the pessary

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