Anyone thinking of extending their mat leave?

I had worked mine out so that I take from July - Nov as mat leave and then December as holiday, giving me 6 months off and going back to work in Jan but now that almost 3 months have gone by already I'm already dreading going back 😩

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy my job and I work from home so will still be around for my baby but she won't have my undivided attention anymore and I just don't think I'll be ready for that in 3 months 😬

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I'm dreading going back in January too. I'll be doing 4 long days at the hospital and 3.5 hrs from home so I can have a day with him. Feeling guilty already but I am the highest earner in the house so not much choice.

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I don’t think I’m going to have a choice but to go back as my mat leave allowance is so poor. I really don’t want to go back as I’m enjoying being with my little boy and watching him grow 😢 I will probably end up back to work in Jan which would be 6 months mat leave instead of the 9 I wanted x

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yeah if I extend my leave then I will be getting the government mat pay which is why I decided to only take 5 months and use one month's AL to begin with 😕

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I’m really fortunate that I’m able to take the year off and at first I didn’t think I’d take the full year, now he’s here I know I will be taking as long as we can x

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I'm in exactly the same position @Monique ! Going back in Jan because I just can't afford longer. I also work from home, but know it won't be the same as being off with him. Xx

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I am really fortunate and can take a year but even that I am thinking of extending with holiday at the end!

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