Unhappy

I’m 12 weeks pregnant and i have a 2 year old my partner started working nights 4 months ago i have really been struggling i’ve been very ill for last 6 weeks with the pregnancy and I’m really lonely when my partner got this job he told me we could see how it would go if it wasn’t something we agreed on he would find a day job but now he just refuses,I’ve asked him to walk the dog for just ten minutes a day he says she my dog no I should also put i do not live off this man i pay all the house bills myself he pays for shopping and I don’t know if I should leave but he doesn’t want compromise anything and I’m so lonely and unhappy

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Hello lovely. I think you and your partner need to sit down and really talk or maybe even do couples counseling. I am a strong advocate for therapy for everyone. Being in a relationship is about supporting one another especially if one is struggling. However, if he's not willing to assist you with things that are hard for you to do, not willing to compromise, and you are unhappy you need to prioritize yourself so you can Be the best version of yourself for you LO. It's better to be alone and happy then with someone and miserable. Kiddos pick up on that. I hope you find your happiness lovely.

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