Did you feel the ‘ring of fire’ ?

Thinking about how I’d like to birth my third (a long way off) and got me thinking about the ring of fire I’ve heard of but never experienced. I had an epidural with my first so wouldn’t of felt it but my second I didn’t have any pain meds and only had a graze but didn’t feel any sort of ring of fire. Did you?

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I had 2 unmedicated births and didn't feel the ring of fire either time. I've been told it can depend on what position you push in and how hard/when you push. Some people force themselves to push out of time with contractions and that can make you more likely to feel it. No idea how true that is but that's what I've heard

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I didn’t feel it with no pain meds I’m surprised because I had a lot of pretty bad tearing lol

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Yes 🔥, found it worse than the contractions - but thankfully only lasted a few seconds (I had zero pain relief)

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Nope didn't feel it 😁

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Nope didn’t feel it. Had a water birth not sure if that makes a difference tbh

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Very much so with my second (had an episiotomy with my first so had local anaesthetic), thought I was gonna be torn in two! But only ended up with a graze :) pretty excruciating though I can't lie, but only for a few moments x

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Even with the epidural, I felt it. And screamed, "WHAT IS THAT?" At the top of my lungs. 🙃😅

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Yep, thank you epidural for wearing off just in time for that special moment 😅

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Omg yes! I felt it, mostly with my first baby

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Yes both unmedicated births and YES as soon as it happened I knew exactly what it was. Worst with the first though and I didn’t tear on that one.

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Yes! Literally like your vagina is on fire 🙈 my little one was born in the pool, 9Ib with no medical pain relief, I didn’t tear but panted quite a lot whilst he was crowing to prevent the tearing, but was very hard when I just wanted him out, lasted about 30 seconds but felt like 10 minutes 🤣

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