To give dummy in the night or not?!

My LO will use a dummy throughout the day to settle and get to sleep, but we’ve never given her it overnight (luckily because we haven’t had to) but now she’s more unsettled in the night I think it would help her self settle but I don’t want to be doing dummy runs all night long and her crying for it 😵‍💫 I’ve seen lots of people use them on here but also wish that they didn’t! What’s peoples opinions? X

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Mine uses it to settle at night then spits it out 😂 he doesn’t have it again after that cause he’s in a deep sleep x

does he wake up at all during the night? That’s when I think it would be a problem for me constantly putting it back in 🤣 x

I put them in at night, like Someone else said my LO spits it out when he is asleep. If he stirs in the night I tend to put the dummy in first. Sometimes he goes straight back to sleep with it, might just be a few sucks and then be spits it back out as he is asleep, other times he spits it out and cries which is when I get him out for food as we are still doing all least one feed a night. Last night it was 3!! But it was first night away on holiday after a long drive so I’m hoping he was just hungry and unsettled from that and he’ll be better tonight 🤣

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