How is everyone affording to live?

It seems like every week there is a new expense that arises. We can't get ahead. It's so frustrating, I'm so overwhelmed. I don't know what to do.

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I know the feeling. I can't afford it in our current situation either. So I am changing my situation so I can. I am taking my kids and moving into a smaller place that is way cheaper. So that way I can start saving up and get ahead.

I feel you, I just separated from my wife and moved out. Had to fill a house for me and my 2 kids and try to survive on 1 income

Our house is close to being paid off.. same with our vehicles. We've cut back so much and it still isn't enough. Childcare is outrageous. Groceries are outrageous. Everything is outrageous. It seems like every time we take a breath something goes wrong. Something breaks. Someone needs something. We run out of a necessity. It just sucks. It's so frustrating.

Yes agree bills take all funds ro be money for nothing else

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Mama needs new friends ✨

Hey mamas 🤍 I'm going to be honest — I'm at a season in my life where I'm craving real, genuine friendship. The kind where we actually check on each other. Where conversations go both ways. Where we can laugh, vent, cry, and just *be* without it feeling one-sided.

I'm a stay at home mom of 6 (yes, 6! 👏🏼) and my days are full but my cup feels a little empty in the friendship department. I'm looking for women who get it — the chaos, the beauty, the exhaustion, all of it.

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Help

Really embarrassing!
I'm a first time mummy at 35, she's 16 month and everytime I sneeze or cough I lose control of my bladder and pee a little 😔, I've had countless utis since having her aswell! Will it get better? Or do I need to invest in panty liners? 😆

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Leaving your baby

Has anyone else not left their baby to be looked after by someone else (not dad) yet? I still don't feel ready but am being told I should be by now

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Random but when you use a vibrator do you need to hold your lips open for it to touch the bean ?

It gets annoying because even if I open my legs I still need to hold the lips open to touch the bean and I have to do it the entire time my lips are literally sealed closed 🤣

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