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I’m 35+1 and I look at my house and it’s so messy I feel like I’m drowning and I’m in so much pain when I push myself to get stuff done.. please tell me I’m not the only one. 😔

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Girl. I’m getting induced tmw and I JUST finished cleaning. This morning at 3am🥹

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You’re not alone! Sometimes I have to leave my house and go for a car ride bc every little mess will upset me

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My house is a catastrophe, and it hurts to walk. I’m not pushing myself anymore, my husband totally gets it too.

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You’re not alone!! My list of things to do is giant. I’ve got 2.5 more weeks until baby here girl is here.

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I am in the same boat
I'm 36 +2 and I am running around with a toddler and cleaning up the house all the time... I have so much joint pain that im exaughted and have been having trouble organizing clothes for new baby

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If you can clean one dish, it’s one dish, you can clean one room it’s one less room if you can only fold one piece of clothing, ITS OKAY. You don’t have to conquer the whole house in one day or even one week. It takes me literally all day to accomplish one thing! I make a list and prioritize what I would like most to be cleaned & what would make me feel most accomplished.

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You’re definitely not the only one! I’ve been like this my whole pregnancy honestly

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Been in 'labor' 1 1/2 months (dilated 1 cm with 9 level contractions) on bed rest the mess is killing my soul but the contractions kill me worse when I try and do it just needing to hold in 1 more week before dr takes her less my amniotic fluid gets to low

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Yes I’m officially having a house cleaner take over the bigger cleaning projects.

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I swear I was googling this yesterday…. But I have 2 friends coming tomorrow to help because they insist I don’t spend money they got me.

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That’s what’s up!! I’m known as the clean freak and my MIL keeps trying to get me to help her organize her house and I’m like, I can barely manage my own household 😂🤦‍♀️

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yeah my dad is a clean freak, he’s been offering help but I deny because the way he does things just gets under my skin lol

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that’s crazy to be asking that of you at this point!!

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Hahaha yesss I totally get that!! 😂😂

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I know! I try to take it as a compliment 🤦‍♀️

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