Que mas hago con mi matrimonio?

Buenas a todos ,soy ama de casa y tengo mucho digo mucho casada .yo ahorita ya ni se q hacer con mi matrimonio porq a estado en muchos problemas cn mi marido (me apuesto los cuernos mas de 30 veces) y hasta en los chats tambien se desnuda enfrente de ellas y masturba tambien el cree q no se pero yo se y lo a reclamado y se niega .ni se disculpa ,y yo me acambiado mi forma por el y mis hijos lo amo pero ya me estoy sintiendo muerta por dentro (ya no me desforzar por el o otro hombre )mis hijos lo Aman tambien .pero communicacion no sirve con el y se enoja y hace su papel del victima.pero ya me Harte y me siento q no valgo para nada y solo me quieren como nana por los Niños (y lo cuido a el y mis hijos ),y yo siempre al ultimo .pero q mas hago (no tengo amigas y siempre en casa con mi hija (no va a escuela )los otros van a escuela . Q me pueden recommendar (platicano jala otra cosa )me lleva hasta la madre como me siento y aveces me quiero suicidar (ya no quiero aveces estar despertando a lo mismo .

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Hola! Que tristeza que estés pasando por esa situación, no se la merece nadie. Sin saber toda la historia mi consejo sería que intentes ponerte fuerte y empieces a crear una vida sin esa persona. Siempre va a ser el padre de tus hijos, pero a ti como pareja no te suma en nada.. al contrario. Fuerza que vales mucho💪🏻

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Acércate a Dios. Que te de la sabiduría que necesitas para saber que hacer y como actuar.
Si lo amas a él, pero tú, te amas a ti?…yo no soy nadie para decirte que lo dejes. Pero esa vida es la que deseas vivir siempre?
No se donde te encuentres pero aquí en USA hay muchísimas ayudas qué tal vez te puedan servir para salir adelante por ti y tus niños. Si vives en Texas, te podría compartir unos lugares que conozco donde nos han ayudado a madres con hijos pequeños 🙏🏻

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Es difícil pero tu puedes salir adelante. Tu vida importa mucho y tus hijos te necesitan. Empieza a hacer un plan para que tengas modo de mantenerte. A lo mejor un entrenamiento para que puedas agarrar un trabajo. También puedes empezar a trabajar en ti misma. Cuídate un poco mas pero no para el. Para ti. Para que te sientas mas confidente y mas fuerte. Cuando nos cuidamos nosotras los demás lo hacen también. Si el no lo hace que no te importe ya por que lo que hagas será para ti y tus hijos. Te deseo lo mejor y que todo te salga bien 😊 tu importas y vales mucho.

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Divorcio señora y Dios la ayudará.

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Primero . Piensa en ti nada más que en ti . Tu autoestima estará por el piso siempre. Entonces busca ayuda sicológica y tus niños ase de su vida una vida que nunca olviden be al parque a jugar as ejercicio con ellos baila . Y al malparido que tienes bótalo. Sabes porque cuando perdonas a alguien que te lastimo . Le das otra oportunidad doló le das otra bala para que te vuelva a matar .

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Esos tipos no valen la pena. Valórate como mujer y cómo madre de tus hijos. Vuélvete una mujer empoderada . Eso no le gusta a los hombres. Y cuando uno es una mujer independientemente financiera no necesita de nadie para salir adelante

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Primero que nada TU VALES MUCHO... yo también pase por unas situaciones parecidas y te entiendo ... Creeme que no hay otra solución más que el divorcio tal vez te cueste hacerlo pero piensa que si tú no estás bien tus hijos tampoco lo estarán y que ok... Te quedas ahí "por tus hijos" y cuando ellos se vayan ??? Que vas a hacer ?? Ellos se enteraran que lo hiciste por ellos y esa carga es muy pesada para tus hijos y sentirán culpa y les dejaras de enseñanza que estén con quién no los respeta y no los quieren.
Piensa en ti en tu salud mental, en que solo hay una vida... dime cuantos años crees vivir ?? Cuántos años te quedan para VIVIR?? Tu mereces una vida mejor y tus hijos necesitan unos papás felices y eso no significa que juntos

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Omg te entiendo perfectamente 😭 háblame

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Separece que el señor haga de su vida un papalote y que a usted no la esté llevando entre las patas.
Dígale adiós a esa vida y empiece una nueva y se lleva a sus hijos a un entorno menos tóxico

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