Sleep training ??

Has anyone tried it please ? Did it work

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We did it for our little boy when he turned 6 months old. Was very against the idea but it got to the stage we had to do somthing as neither us or him was getting any sleep. We didn't do cry it out or anything just gave comfort by shhh and rubbing him tummy left him 2 mins then 3 then 4 then 5 then every 5 mins while he cried. The main thing was consistency and do not pick them up. It worked, he more often then not sleeps through now as he has learned to self sooth and he is 7 months old. It's hard but he and us are so much better for it.

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Following as it’s something I’m considering due to persistent wake ups and sleepless nights

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thanks so like for sharing we are thinking thr Ferber method. How long did it take ? How many hours do they now sleep ? Any tips 😘?

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The first week was pretty bad. Had times where he cried for an hour at a time. It defo makes you want to give up and pick them up. It improved after the first week. He still wakes at times for example he woke at 23.30 last night and took around half an hour to settle. My main tip is be consistant. No matter how hard it gets stick with it as breaking and picking him up is what will make it fail. Even now a month and half later we still follow the rules, don't pick him up, just comfort as per the recommendations. He goes down around 7 and sleeps untill half 6 in the morning, he has times where he wakes but quickly rolls over and goes back to sleep most of the time. It's been a game changer for us.

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thanks so much ! It feels so cruel doesn’t it but studies do show it actually helps them xxx

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Yes we followed the ‘baby secrets’ book section on sleep training , reccommend xx

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I am currently sleep training my baby (6 months old). I was also against it but am to return to work tomorrow and was so tired I almost crashed my car twice. For reference my baby was waking up every 1-2 hours and was nursing to sleep, but would transfer him to his cot because I was too scared to bed share.
Anyways we started on Thursday using Ferber method as it worked wonders with my niece. The first night was the hardest, but nowhere near as bad as I thought it would be.
He cried for 14 min then fell asleep, then again half an hour later for 30 min (with 3 checks), then every hour at night he’d cry for a minute or two then go back to sleep again.
Second night took him 5 min to fall asleep on his own, woke up a couple times overnight but fell asleep immediately after.
Last night (3rd night) he fell asleep in 10 minutes with minimum fussing and slept through 7.30 pm - 7.30 am I still can’t believe it 🥹
Fingers crossed for tonight 🤞🏻

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Resentment and placing blame on partner

Firstly, please don’t judge me - I’m aware all my thoughts aren’t rational and I do already feel badly about them

I’m finding myself becoming easily frustrated, annoyed, and placing a lot of blame on my partner for many things. Now I’d get it if he was rubbish but he’s not - he has the baby straight away when he gets home from work, he lets me get ready and shower before he goes to work, he pitches in with the chores and gives me any time I ask for off. He doesn’t go out loads either.

I do a lot of the mental labour - realising we need more of and purchasing clothes, milk, groceries, deciding dinner, cooking, cleaning, thinking about what baby needs, etc.

However I just find myself annoyed and blaming him for so many things I find difficult. I know this isn’t fair, but it’s almost like I’m angry that he’s finding it easy and I’m not. Angry if I’ve just got the baby to sleep and he doesn’t think and closes doors to loudly. Angry when he doesn’t dress baby warm enough, or when he puts him in a car seat with a coat on. When he forgets a blanket or doesn’t wash his hands and plays with him. When hes snoring and I’ve just got the baby to drift off.

We have had many conversations and he has tried to take loads off me but it never feels like enough for me to stop being annoyed with him.

Am I experiencing some sort of post partum mental health issues? I find myself upset and crying a lot. any advice would help.

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Nursery lunches?

My daughter is nearly 10 months old and starting nursery next month. I want to send my daughter in with lunches so I know shes eating healthy meals but I'm honestly so lost as to what to put in her little bento lunch box that will keep till lunch time and doesnt need reheating. Ive been doing loads of baby led weaning at home, but I tend to make it fresh or pull stuff from the freezer I've previously made and defrost and reheat.
Could you show me some of the lunches you've been giving your baby? Or have you been been letting the nursery deal with the food?

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Parenting 24/7 is harder than going to work full time?

I’m having a debate with my partner as he’s done nothing to help since. Our 14 month old was born, I’ve done it all alone all day and all night. He gets a break when he comes in from work all night I never get a break
He try’s to tell me it’s harder going to work full time 5 days a week than parenting ALONE 24/7?
What do you think

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What would u do? What should i do

So to try to explain this in the best way possible I have a very small apartment.
I opened my back door which leads directly to the laundry room of the building. Lately, I started bringing my son in the laundry room with me because he bangs on the door and tries to get out.

Today I opened the door to get my stuff out of the dryer. I saw I guess my neighbor putting stuff in the washer. It’s a very tight space so I closed the door and was planning on going back after he leave instead of crowding up the space with the baby. Plus I was in shorts and had no bra on, it was an older man.

I latched my door with the dead lock as I usually do so that I do not get locked out and I just left it that way without thinking about it.

I turned my back walk maybe about 5-7steps. My apartment is barely 15 steps front to back.
Turn around. Realize my baby is GONE he’s only 16 months!

I start yelling for him. I approach the door and I hear my son laughing…
The man had opened my door to lure my son in the laundry room with him without me knowing!!!!!!!

They were playing 🤯

He was there for no more then 20-30 seconds if that. It happened so fast, he doesn’t speak good English he’s polish
My door usually slams loud when closed, so this was done quietly…..


When I discovered that the man was with my son, I was trying to simply take my kid back in the house, but he continued on playing and I was yelling at my son that he shouldn’t be wondering without me.

No, first off I know for a fact, my son did not open the door number one. It’s very heavy and number two. He doesn’t know how to open doors yet.

And I asked the man straight out did my son open the door and he said no I did.

My son could get the door to open maybe an inch, I know that. So he must have done that and the man just decided to open it and bring my son with him.

I’m so outraged. Annoyed, uncomfortable. I live alone just me and my son.

What do I do?

I don’t know if he is maybe a visitor, I see his car sometimes but usually it’s another person who looks like him with a different car. Maybe my neighbors dad is my best bet.


Anyway. What should I do? Should I bring this to management. Should I approach my neighbor and figure out exactly who that was?

Thanks ladies wish me luck

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I live in a small 2 bedroom flat. How do I keep my home smelling nice?

Especially bedroom considering dirty laundry lives in there too. I do laundry once a week because I don’t use enough to do more frequent.
But I just want my room smelling nice and cosy.

The more natural the method the better ladies 😣
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