Break up

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Has anyone gone through a break up whilst baby is so young? Any advice?
My husband has moved out for few days for space but I honestly don't think the issues can be resolved.

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My husband of 5 months left me at 2 months pregnant, for a 24yr old. having baby I did it all on my own I have a beautiful 6 month baby girl I class him as a sperm donor nothing else he has ignored my solicitor for a child plan to see Phoebe so he can do one now. My advice would be if u can resolve a plan to him seeing kids do so and focus on you getting you back to u. It absolutely hurts and kills u inside but you focus is on you and your children. If he can walk away from u like that and leave u with everything let him.

Here if u need to talk

I dont know the details but I will say, so many couples struggle in the first year after having a baby. I'd say if the issues aren't too drastic, try work it out. Hormones, sleep deprivation and mourning the couple you once were are very real things. I understand if you can't, I just wanted to provide you with some hope that you're not alone in this and it happens so often, you could save it if you both want to. Or walk away if you can't. Either way, make an amicable agreement that you'll both support baby ♡

Thank you both! 😊

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