Is NCT worth the price?

Hi Ladies. Trying to find antenatal classes and just wondered if anyone has completed or in the middle of the NCT course. It’s super expensive, so just wondering if it’s worth the money and if you get what you pay for? X

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We thought it was good. The lady made a lot of sense and gave great advice. In an NHS where a lot of decisions are made based on policy not individual need, I think she gave a lot of info to allow us to advocate for ourselves. It was also great to meet others due at the same time and some who recently became parents.

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I mostly went for the network you can make, and that is amazing. Even in a group like our which really took time to bond, the Mum what'supp group is a great support network, plus we've already been out together once since

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100% for me, I was more prepared and calmer before and during birth. My boyfriend knew exactly what is going on and why and was much helpful during the whole pregnancy, birth and now he is great dad. I have gained friends and we used to meet up once a week and now see each other at least once every 3 weeks (I gave birth in June)

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I've been feeling the same, really want to join a class but it's just so expensive.

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We didn’t really find ours that beneficial - I had learned most of the stuff already just by watching videos I saw on tiktok or Instagram, and they placed so much emphasis on the pregnancy/Labour stage than afterwards which I thought was more important. And none of our group speak either

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same. And I found that they asked us all the time what we would do in certain scenarios. I paid for you to tell me lol

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Thank you ladies. I’ve seen a couple of others, so just need to compare the differences etc. I have heard that many people have a good support network with NCT. Although, I guess it depends on the people on the course. X

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I thought it was a complete waste of money to be honest. I’d watched the pregnancy pack form the Positive Birth company which was only £40. NCT just reiterated all the videos I’d already watched so wasn’t very helpful. It was nice to meet local couples but I don’t know if that was worth the £270 we paid 😳

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i don't think that's a problem. They are a non-medical organisation, they shouldn't tell you what to do. But they tea h you how to question medical staff and how to make up your own mind, so you are not bullued into anything

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Derby family hubs run free ante marek classes. I attended the nct one with my first and found it useful but quiet impersonal with my second I loved attending a small private antenatal class with daisy birthing the lady now runs https://nestnurture.co.uk/

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We're on week two of a course with Bump, Birth and Beyond. They've recently rebranded to Pregnancy to Parenthood, but the classes have been great so far and the socialising aspect from them is great too! They're cheaper than NCT, so definitely worth a look. You also get a free hypnobirthing course after week 3 ☺️

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Sorry this is long, I hope some of you get to the end and give advice!!!

So I’m a very thrifty person, things are tight at the moment, the cost of living crisis and my house is heated by oil so things are extortionate. We aren’t on the bread line but we aren’t flush, hubby might be made redundant so there is some financial pressure.

Sometimes I buy my sons something nicer, on the justification that I can sell it on after (♥️ vinted ♥️). I have also been planning on pretty much breaking even most of the baby things I bought from face book market place, side by crib, baby changing unit, etc.

Hubby and I have different money cultures with our families (he’s Indian, I’m British). I’m my family we don’t mix money, we would help each other out if someone was in trouble and will get each other gifts on special occasions. With hubby’s family money is much more fluid, they will give each other things worth thousands of £ just because.

Hubby’s brother bought him a new laptop and a new Google phone, he’s been very generous to hubby. Hubby hasn’t given the same back because brother is much richer.

Hubby and I mostly share finances. If it’s relevant I’m the higher earner.

Now to the point! My babies are so cute they’ve given hubby’s brother (currently single) baby rabies. He’s asked for our baby stuff when we’re done with it. He’s been so generous to hubby I feel really stingy saying no. But I’d never have bought some of the stuff if I wasn’t going to get a return on it - the thought makes me a bit anxious. If we gave all our baby stuff given the second hand value it still wouldn’t equal what the brother had given hubby.


I thought maybe I could give him some stuff but sell some stuff, but hubby said then his brother will just have to go out and buy that stuff, so I should name my price and ask his brother for the money. That makes me feel very uncomfortable, given how generous the brother has been to hubby.

So what do I do ladies? Give it all and suck it up? Give part of it and sell parts on Vinted/FB, or ask hubbys brother for money for it and be uncomfortable? Or do you see another solution?

No one is being entitled or rude here, just a culture difference I need to navigate.

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