Sex after 2nd baby

Maybe a schedule is applying too much pressure, it doesn’t seem very natural that way but I get that with 2 kids it’s hard to be spontaneous. Try to be understanding of his feelings too, if he’s getting annoyed there’s a reason behind it

I think ur plan is great on paper and all but I'm sorry it's not gonna happen that way....at least not until they're a little bit older.....just grab the chance when you can....we (me moreso) were so frustrated.... especially as I'd normally be able to be satisfied with intercourse so I thought well sometimes quickies will have to work but my pelvic floor felt much weaker (not an issue after 1st baby though) and intercourse was so not enjoyable at all. So even if we got to do it it was disappointing so we had to do more foreplay but like getting time to do it all and make sure everyone was satisfied was hard enough without the kids cock blocking as u said.

So I'd say grab any chance & then yes you need to have a chat with partner again & maybe even remind him. Or come down the stairs with lingerie & a dressing gown or just ur dressing gown and maybe he'll stop the game (defeats the purpose of him initiating) but in reality you guys just have to grab any opportunity with both hands and hope they don't wake x

he only gets annoyed when I ask why does he always do it so late. And he says things like oh I forgot ect. Scheduling sex was his idea because he had to wait 4 month for us to get at it again. But he only wants to have sex if I start it all the time. If he has to start he doesn’t do anything or try to make a move until like midnight (or kids sleep around 8)
But yeah I definitely hear you.

Maybe stop taking turns. Just tell him you’re ready and he’ll come running lol

I do this with my husband and he doesn’t hesitate for a second 🥹