I can’t believe this happened

The worst thing happened today. My baby fell out of the bed. I feel so horrible. I’m super exhausted. So now I called my mom and she’s going to help me with the baby so I can get sleep and she won’t be sleeping in the bed with me she will be sleeping in her own bed for now. Lesson learned.

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So sorry this happened to you. You are doing your best momma ♥️ hope you can find some rest

A similar thing happened to us. My husband put our 6 month old on the bed when we got home from church. He walked out of the room to show me a hole in his shirt and she rolled off the bed. It was terrible! We felt so awful, but she was completely fine, if a bit frightened.

thank you and my mom is going to take her for the weekend so I can rest

sorry to hear that and thanks for letting me know things happen

This just happened to my husband and I yesterday night too!!! He put our daughter on the bed too get a bath started and I was downstairs cleaning the kitchen when I heard a loud thump and cry. I ran upstairs sooo fast and she was on the floor. My husband felt awful and I was in a straight panic. I actually too my daughter to the emergency room because she had a little bump on her head and I was so scared she hit the bed frame and indented her skull. The ER doc looked her over and said she is at a VERY low risk for a serious head injury (which I am so thankful for) but I still have a pit in my stomach thinking about it.

Oh no! That is so scary! Luckily, our little one cried out of fear and she didn’t get hurt at all. I probably would have panicked too if she got a bump from it! So glad they’re ok!

same here I still have pit in my stomach too but she is doing good

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