Friends
Kinda upset, wanting to vent but dont want to talk to anyone irl cos its a bit embarrassing.
Only one of my close friends have checked up on me since ive given birth. The other close friends said congratulations when I informed them my LO was born and then that was it. Its really sad cos people that I rarely talk to are messaging me and checking up on how im doing and how the baby is. But the ones that i told first about my pregnancy etc. are no where to be seen postpartum. I know people have their own lives and can get busy and have their own problems but my LO is almost 3 weeks and I feel like I dont exist to them. Mind you, ive been friends with them for 11 years. :/
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if i were in your shoes i would express how i felt. it doesn’t seem like a big deal unless it was the other way around, they would want you there for them too. this is a hard time for you and you deserve to be surrounded by support people instead of learning that this may be their true colors
Hmmn. Idk do they live far away? Have you been ignoring them lately?
Sadly a lot of times you lose friends when you have kids. I used to have a ton of friends now I have like 4 it takes awhile to get used to but it shows who really care about you and wanna be in your life no matter what
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