Mi bebé aún no habla...

¡Hola! Soy nueva por acá, tengo una bebé de 1 año 9 meses. Tengo algo de curiosidad respecto a cuándo es "normal" que comiencen a hablar... digo, mi niña si dice algunas palabras, se da a entender y entiende perfecto, pero varias personas me dicen que se está tardando en hablar, yo creo que es todo a su tiempo y que cada niño es distinto... qué me recomiendan?

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Hola mi bebe tiene la misma edad que tu bebé pero no dice nada solo gritos y balbucea, pero es que lo tenemos muy consentido así que cada bebe tiene su proceso yo pienso que solo debemos disfrutar todo saludos 🤗

Checa que haga contacto visual, que sus manos puedan agarrar cosas sin ninguna dificultad, que coma bien con sus manos, si le hablas por su nombre y no voltea o no te hace caso... Si ves algo extraño en eso llévalo a revisión.

Valeria tu bebé aún es pequeño, hay niños que no hablan bien hasta los 4 años!!! Cada uno tiene su proceso y su tiempo.

Hola Valeria soy pedagoga y te digo que no te alarmes tú bebé está en la etapa sensorio-motora lo que quiere decir que es más visual está en la edad perfecta de que le estimules para que empiece su lenguaje y pensamiento simbólico, se que los amamos mucho pero tú haz que tenga la necesidad de expresar.

Mi pequeña también entiende y dice varias palabras pero igual me decían lo mismo que se está tardando pero veo en los comentarios que cada niño tiene su proceso ❤️

Hola! Hasta hace unos 5 meses estaba en el mismo caso, y te platico lo que pasó; en alguna visita a mi pediatra me comentó que mi hijo tenía ligero retraso del habla, por lo que me recomendó ir a terapias del lenguaje, a las cuales acudí con mi niño de ese entonces 1.6 años, pero si te soy sincera, casi no vi un cambio, al contrario cada vez que lo llevaba era llanto incontrolable, por lo que reduje las sesiones a 1 vez a la semana, y me puse a investigar en YouTube como apoyar a mi hijo, y encontré un canal que se llama Dagmi Family Fun, en el cual la chica enseña a los bebés a pronunciar, así que me descargue los videos y únicamente le colocaba a mi hijo el audio, y sorprendente los audios de los videos de esta chica dieron mayores resultados, te recomiendo ver los videos, a mi parecer la voz de la chica les llama la atención a los pequeños. Por otro lado comprendí que mi hijo es único e irá a su ritmo, ahora habla hasta por los codos, así que tranquila, llegará el momento preciso.

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Resentment and placing blame on partner

Firstly, please don’t judge me - I’m aware all my thoughts aren’t rational and I do already feel badly about them

I’m finding myself becoming easily frustrated, annoyed, and placing a lot of blame on my partner for many things. Now I’d get it if he was rubbish but he’s not - he has the baby straight away when he gets home from work, he lets me get ready and shower before he goes to work, he pitches in with the chores and gives me any time I ask for off. He doesn’t go out loads either.

I do a lot of the mental labour - realising we need more of and purchasing clothes, milk, groceries, deciding dinner, cooking, cleaning, thinking about what baby needs, etc.

However I just find myself annoyed and blaming him for so many things I find difficult. I know this isn’t fair, but it’s almost like I’m angry that he’s finding it easy and I’m not. Angry if I’ve just got the baby to sleep and he doesn’t think and closes doors to loudly. Angry when he doesn’t dress baby warm enough, or when he puts him in a car seat with a coat on. When he forgets a blanket or doesn’t wash his hands and plays with him. When hes snoring and I’ve just got the baby to drift off.

We have had many conversations and he has tried to take loads off me but it never feels like enough for me to stop being annoyed with him.

Am I experiencing some sort of post partum mental health issues? I find myself upset and crying a lot. any advice would help.

Nursery lunches?

My daughter is nearly 10 months old and starting nursery next month. I want to send my daughter in with lunches so I know shes eating healthy meals but I'm honestly so lost as to what to put in her little bento lunch box that will keep till lunch time and doesnt need reheating. Ive been doing loads of baby led weaning at home, but I tend to make it fresh or pull stuff from the freezer I've previously made and defrost and reheat.
Could you show me some of the lunches you've been giving your baby? Or have you been been letting the nursery deal with the food?

Parenting 24/7 is harder than going to work full time?

I’m having a debate with my partner as he’s done nothing to help since. Our 14 month old was born, I’ve done it all alone all day and all night. He gets a break when he comes in from work all night I never get a break
He try’s to tell me it’s harder going to work full time 5 days a week than parenting ALONE 24/7?
What do you think

What would u do? What should i do

So to try to explain this in the best way possible I have a very small apartment.
I opened my back door which leads directly to the laundry room of the building. Lately, I started bringing my son in the laundry room with me because he bangs on the door and tries to get out.

Today I opened the door to get my stuff out of the dryer. I saw I guess my neighbor putting stuff in the washer. It’s a very tight space so I closed the door and was planning on going back after he leave instead of crowding up the space with the baby. Plus I was in shorts and had no bra on, it was an older man.

I latched my door with the dead lock as I usually do so that I do not get locked out and I just left it that way without thinking about it.

I turned my back walk maybe about 5-7steps. My apartment is barely 15 steps front to back.
Turn around. Realize my baby is GONE he’s only 16 months!

I start yelling for him. I approach the door and I hear my son laughing…
The man had opened my door to lure my son in the laundry room with him without me knowing!!!!!!!

They were playing 🤯

He was there for no more then 20-30 seconds if that. It happened so fast, he doesn’t speak good English he’s polish
My door usually slams loud when closed, so this was done quietly…..

When I discovered that the man was with my son, I was trying to simply take my kid back in the house, but he continued on playing and I was yelling at my son that he shouldn’t be wondering without me.

No, first off I know for a fact, my son did not open the door number one. It’s very heavy and number two. He doesn’t know how to open doors yet.

And I asked the man straight out did my son open the door and he said no I did.

My son could get the door to open maybe an inch, I know that. So he must have done that and the man just decided to open it and bring my son with him.

I’m so outraged. Annoyed, uncomfortable. I live alone just me and my son.

What do I do?

I don’t know if he is maybe a visitor, I see his car sometimes but usually it’s another person who looks like him with a different car. Maybe my neighbors dad is my best bet.

Anyway. What should I do? Should I bring this to management. Should I approach my neighbor and figure out exactly who that was?

Thanks ladies wish me luck

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Especially bedroom considering dirty laundry lives in there too. I do laundry once a week because I don’t use enough to do more frequent.
But I just want my room smelling nice and cosy.

The more natural the method the better ladies 😣
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