Desahogo

Mi bebé tiene tres meses, desde que estoy embarazada nos mudamos de tulum a Querétaro atravesando la república en carro, para después terminar en sonora de donde soy, todo en busca de mejor vida, mejores oportunidades y crecimientos personales. Nada se encontró así que estamos de regreso en tulum hace una semana jaja. Bueno los crecimientos vaya que si se encontraron. Pero me he estado sintiendo que me volvía loca, loca de verdad con muchos pensamientos negativos, fueron unos dos días así, pero ya lloré y me desahogué con mi esposo que por cierto está sin trabajo también desesperado buscando rápido dónde acomodarse para ya generar porque los ahorros están casi en -0. Pero así mi vida, me aventure a dejar mi trabajo, viajar, ser madre, LME, pañales de tela, crianza respetuosa y con apego. A veces no sé de dónde se me ocurre tanta cosa en este mundo tan difícil para las madres y mujeres.

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Te entiendo hace unos meses estuve buscando así que comencé mejor con un emprendimiento de venta de producto con Farmasi así saca uno tiempo y no descuidar ami bebe

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Así estoy yo viendo un par de ideas para emprender y no descuidar a mi bebé. Que difícil equilibrar eso.

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Ay las entiendo! Yo tengo desde la pandemia sin trabajar de lleno cómo lo hacía antes y me estoy volviendo loca, quisiera emprender algo y no logro saber por dónde 🥲

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Si la situación está muy difícil incluso trabajando no alcanza y si tienes que pagar niñera se te va todo ahí así que ni conviene, yo estoy viendo todas las posibilidades para emprender en el medio digital ahora ya todo es por la computadora quiero encontrar la forma de generar por ahí.

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Lo mismo quiero. Que difícil, lo peor que no me mantienen y los gastos corren a mitades 😔 me siento tan abandonada y estresada por lo mismo.. si vuelves a queretaro yo estoy por aquí

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Que difícil que no te ayuden económicamente porque ser mamá es un trabajo muy duro y si es necesario tener ese respaldo. Si yo que estoy en pareja y me ayuda mucho a veces me siento abandonada y abrumada con toda la situación. Que fuerte eres, aquí estoy si necesitas platicar.🤍✨

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Yo también soy LME con dieta estricta porque mi beba es APLV y también pañales de tela para ella y mí otro chiquitín.

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Woooow! Mucha suerte en su búsqueda, es realmente difícil estar en esas situaciones, me pasó en el embarazo y estar con la incertidumbre cuando alguien ya depende de ti es complicado... Admiro el trabajo que haces al usar pañales de tela 🥹

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