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We are all in this together ...why are there people on here hating on others? There is a time to judge and then a time to give advice . Advice I will take... judgmental comments I will not. Thanks!

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Real talk! I've seen some "better than thou" responses to women that are genuinely going thru it right now and are just seeking a judgment free zone to vent or encouraging advice. I'll be quick to tell a bih go f herself because what satisfaction are they getting for tryna kick person when they're already down.

@Kem right... it's like they asked for advice or opinions.. not to be criticized or put down for their situation... some of these womens "well I'm just being honest..." is really nah you just being rude.. there is a huge difference.

People are miserable and thrive on making themselves feel better by putting others down. It's a shame.

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