It’s early

Just thinking about birthday/Christmas is it weird to be buying the baby toys for then his birthday is November so within like a month it’s Christmas It’s just whilst I have the money as not sure what my money will look like then? Not sure if I’ve worded this right lol

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I'm guessing you mean buy the toys now ready for birthday Christmas?
I do this my 5year old birthday is a month after Christmas and the baby is a month before so I buy it all early and throughout the year then I split it all in 2

I’m thinking about my babies gifts for her birthday in November too. I’m planning on giving her 1 or 2 for her birthday n the rest for Xmas. Grab them in the baby events during the year when I have spare money x

yes mean this it’s just I been picking a few bits up not loads what I see on sale but people round me think it’s too early. Like I probably wait a bit nearer the time as he gets older but he’s a baby so I don’t think he’ll have any proper intrest so he’ll like anything 🤷🏼‍♀️

there’s quite a few sales on at The moment they hike the prices up nearer to Christmas for the same things why I was thinking of getting them early. He don’t have proper intrest it’s not like he change his mind like older children would so I think he’ll like anything until he gets proper intrest

I always buy early, the only reason I haven't started yet is due to money and appointments constantly but will start soon for my 5 year old and 13 week old

Also where have you seen sales I'd love to get things on sale

pretty much everywhere has them b&m had a good one near me and entertainer has them quite a bit x

I'll have a look thank you!
I dont see the point in paying out to much for them at this age but I want to make it memorable for us at the same time x

I think this year we will, and I'll ask family to put money into her ISA for her birthday and just get a couple of bits

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