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Thoughts on working it out

Me and bd were never together but we’ve shared alot of experiences with my son . He’s was an sob during my pregnancy even after my son was born. But on another hand hes stepped up , helped me raise my lo as he should being extremely active in his life . Latety weve been flirting more often and he keeps calling me babe under his breath lol . Im weirded out by it .Our weekends are spent together more often then not but i think the icing on the cake is that hes starting to help me with my son after he gets off from work showering , bringing diapers etc (baby is 3) because i have no support where im at . I can navagate being a single mom because its all i know . However if he did right by me i wouldnt mind giving my child that sort of household ya know . I can count on him for anything and ive never had that before . After it all we have built a bond , a solid friendship. I need some perspective because i cant go to anyone else without them bashing him lol. Im saying i think because he has never come out to say anything. Just dropped some text for more of insight.

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I say why not, maybe he’s maturing! That being said he still has to earn his keep in your life & your sons. Keep an eye out for red flags & set healthy boundaries, otherwise I hope it works out for yall 💜

but he hasn’t mentioned it so that’s y i keep on with my life as usual

You should keep on with your life. Don’t rush it. If it’s meant to be it will be. Love each other as much as you can right now as “friends” and see where it goes!

ok that’s good advice. Do you think i should confront him about calling me bae?? Lol! It’s sooo weird

If it actually makes you uncomfortable and you want it to stop yes. But if it secretly gives you butterflies in your stomach and blush a little, then just roll with it. You guys clearly have history and maybe exploring that chapter too. He might not even realize what he’s doing! Or he’s confused too. Unless he starts to refer to you as his girlfriend without a formal convo, then I would honestly just see where it goes. But Ofcourse as long as it’s not making you uncomfortable or unsafe

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