SAHM Issues
I'm so tired of my fiance treating me like a maid 😒 he keeps bringing up how he works all day and I just "sit on my phone and be lazy". He wanted me to quit my job. It was the best for our situation. But he keeps saying stuff like that when I ask him to help me with one simple thing.
He says that if I don't want him to pee on the toilet seat, then my job is to put it up for him. He makes a mess with cooking or throwing his clothes all over the house but since he works all day I can clean up his messes. No. I'm not his mom. Not a maid. I'm a mother who takes care of our daughter all day. I do laundry, dishes, and when I cook I clean up my mess. I don't ever get any help and he makes it worse on my end. And after having to clean up after him like he is a child while running around with an actual child, he wants sex.
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Sounds like somebody needs a good slap. Bloody hell, you’re a saint!
One good thing is he's working bringing in the bread. The bad thing is he isn't doing his half of the house and family. You are working full time as a mother, this is even more full time than any job. You need to have a good chat with him about how you feel and see if you can get him to understand and see reason
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