Cheated on during pregnancy

I was cheated on multiple times by my ex when I was pregnant with my first stuck around til just after baby was born then found out he cheated on me the night before my son was born while I was in hospital that was the last straw ended up leaving him after that

me personally .. cheating on me??? while i’m carrying your child?? and you’re sorry 🤔. yeah no, but i understand your point of view completely

@Sarah so sorry to hear that. I have no idea how some humans can be so selfish. It's unforgivable! How did you manage on your own? My biggest worry atm is being on my own with a newborn and the Financial aspect. I do work and earn myself but on mat leave atm and do not get a lot at all. There's also a house we just recently bought and having to think about trying to sell / move with a newborn is all too much for me !

@Kennedy oh yeah I totally agree with you. Its been 3 months since I found out and I'm still angry. I just need to find the strength to be true to myself, whenever the time is right !

Happened to me to when I was pregnant last year . Didn’t find out until a week postpartum and went into a very deep depression. I stayed because of false promises . Made me not love myself for that decision. I’m here to tell you , don’t believe the “very apologetic” , they’re not really sorry .They will show their real feelings when the fake sorry act is over. But you can try to work it out for your child and see if things really improve .Otherwise, just work on bettering yourself and figuring out something for you and your baby.

Yep my baby just turned 4 months I found out a week before my due date, I stayed because 1 I have $5 to my name and 2 where tf would I go at 39 weeks pregnant

It hasn’t happened to me and honestly I don’t know what I’d do.
It’s easy to say ‘I’d leave his ass’
But no one knows your situation.

Personally I would like to say that I would leave him immediately but you just never know x

Hasn't happened to me but I would 100% leave. If he can do it whilst you are carrying his child and you stay he won't stop doing it in my personal opinion. There is a lot of things couples can work through but cheating is definitely not one of them. Either you will always feel not good enough or every argument you will bring it up as a top trumps for whatever you have done wrong will never be as bad as the cheating. It either ends up extremely toxic or will break down eventually any way in the majority of cases. It will be so very hard to begin with but you are strong enough to do this ❤️

I was cheated on during my first pregnancy. I really didn’t wanna believe it despite people literally showing me proof multiple times. I didn’t care I was so delusional i was willing to cut off my family for this guy. I was super young and so so dumb. That cheating problem than got worse, turned into drug problem and turned into an abuse problem. Im just glad I was able to get out and ending up meeting my husband who is just the complete opposite of my ex.

So sorry hear this!!!! Most men think with the head down there 👇 horrible. Me personally I know I’d turn cold 🥶. Sweet on the outside crunchy on the inside if I had to stay it’ll only be for gain. Whatever I can get help with until I’m on my own. Of course I wouldn’t make it obvious. Sex would be a hard NO for at least a very long time!! I’d get my groove back. Start dressing sexy, doing things you like (go to a coffee shop for hrs) etc clear your brain. Meet with supportive friends come up with a plan…

See, with how my anger problems are set up..

Yes me she messaged me when I was in labour

Leave.

I was definitely done wrong although I’m not sure cheated on is the correct way of saying it for me. My partner went up to stay with a friend for a few days up Bournemouth. He got back and a while later we got into an argument and he was mad at me. He then sent me pictures and videos of him being heavily drunk and cuddling/close to a girl. One of the videos featured him screaming with her fuck Grace and how bad I am. It was awful I was already hormonal and it honestly made me have a serious breakdown. He said nothing more happened than that but it was really hard. Unsure what you should do as I’m currently with him lol