Uggg

So hubbys mad bc he told me he would clean the kitchen bc all he does is play video games on his new system. I'm to the point where I don't know what to do anymore. I have staff who come in and help me and even she said all he does is sit and play video games. Another instance he made ham but it's been out on the counter for over 12 hours and he says it's still safe to eat when we both worked in a restaurant before and have food handlers permits. Then when I get up to clean the kitchen he tells me to lay down bc I'm 6 weeks pregnant and that I'm stressing myself out but when I do go lay down he sits on his butt again. Should I move out or should I work on things with him? We have 2 kids (not his bio kids) this one is his.

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If he can’t get off the game to clean, is he going to get off the game to take care of the baby when the baby arrives? Something to think about and then decide if you should move out.

Sounds like my husband when he starts getting lazy. I have to call him out to get him back on track but I’m getting sick of it. I am also 6 weeks pregnant and we have a 2 year old.

It sounds like he’s lazy and not prioritizing right. My husband plays video games everyday and all day. He still get things done and on top of going to college and taking care of our 4 year old and running on a certain amount of sleep. I would sit down and communicate with him. Tell him how you feel, tell him from your perspective as sometimes men doesn’t see things from our point of view and hopefully he’ll understand more.

Update he stayed up all night and the kitchen still isn't done

He's a loser man child and it will not get better most likely. Sorry hun 😞

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