My baby is 3 months old now me and my baby father decided to live together we been living together for a year now he moved from Ohio to Maryland he didn’t start acting like that until we moved together he wanted to leave from the people he was staying with so bad because he said he was tired of living with them he was without a job for a month I helped him find a job at a warehouse when I was pregnant he wanted to move to a certain area come to find out most of his friends live here before we moved here I lived near my family but my family is only 45 minutes away now so it’s not really that far away from them..and he never wanted me to go out & hang with friends before and now that we moved somewhere where his friends are at he act like he don’t wanna go out with me he always want to go out with his friends.. he don’t have a car or
License so my car messed up I had started a new job around that time and couldn’t start..so my baby father offered to pay for a rental for me so of course the rental is in my name cause I have license so one night he decides to take the rental and say he’s going to get us food he left at 8pm I fell asleep I woke up it’s 2am he’s still not back I text him he gets smart saying he can go out if he wants so he basically went somewhere else saying he can drive the rental cause he gave me the money for it when he don’t have license when he gets home the rental car smell like weed and the passenger seat is all the way back he’s been very disrespectful since he got around these new friends he don’t have family here his family is in Florida and Haiti he tells me he don’t fool with majority of his family I notice he’s been following these different girls on Instagram and atp I’m like what’s the point of us living together when I tell him I think I’m going to just find me another place he tries to say that I can’t keep the baby away.. he act like he shows no interest In me since we moved he sleep with his phone near his head everything he does shows me that he’s talking to someone but when he can’t find nobody to pick him up from work & stuff I’m always there when really I’m like “where are these friends at that’s always coming to get you” ?
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Girly come on.. You’re smarting then this. Why are you willing getting a rental when he messed up your car the first time. He doesn’t care about you and he’s using you. Tell your family to come help you move. You have a BABY to worry about. Not a man. Do what’s best for you and your son/daughter and leave him
he didn’t mess up my car the first time my car got messed up on its own I was saying he offered to give me money for a rental until it got fixed.

Ohh okay got it! But regardless he’s not trying you like your supposed to be treated so why stay ?

THIS REMINDS ME OF MY BABYDADDY GIRL LEAVE THAT MF PRICK. YOU DONT DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THAT, HE IS JUST MANIPULATING YOU. AS LONG AS YOU DONT GO TO COURT YOU HAVE FULL CUSTODY UNTIL HE TAKES YOU TO COURT. ATP HE JUST MAKING EXCUSES YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER. HE IS JUST USING YOU AND NEXT THING YOU KNOW WITH THE WAY HES ACTING HES GONNA END UP BEATING YOU OR THAT CHILD MY BD WAS THE SAME WAY AT FIRST THEN STARTED BEATING ME AND ALMOST HURT OUR BABY. IT TOOK ME FOREVER TO GET OUT, BUT GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN AND IF YOU NEED HELP I WILL HELP YOU MY DMS ARE ALWAYS OPEN!

Reminds me of my child’s father! I’m from Maryland he’s from charlotte Nc when he got there he was like a kid in the candy store the DMV has beautiful women and he was not used to so many options being from the south!
My pregnancy was hell, the way he neglected me and my child for the streets and women girl run fast! And I mean fast!
My daughter is 7 absolutely he still hasn’t changed, yet he’s getting all the karma he deserves,
A Man will only do what you allow!